What are the best and worst places for IR between black men and white women?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by craxy, Jan 27, 2009.

  1. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    What are the best cities, states, or regions in the USA that have more tolerance for black male/white female couples?
     
  2. Tinkerbell

    Tinkerbell New Member

    Southern Arizona is IR friendly, but I don't see many black men around here.
     
  3. untitled1985

    untitled1985 Member

    tolerance? who cares what other people think this isn't the 60's your free to date and communicate with whoever you are.
     
  4. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    My bedroom is a hot spot for BM/WW.
     
  5. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    ....America...in most places, I assume.
     
  6. veema

    veema Member

    Hahahaha...
     
  7. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    you just had to go there, didn't you?:smt118
     
  8. Serendipity

    Serendipity New Member

    Any tours available ? :p
     
  9. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    details please :cool:
     
  10. Emmalee22

    Emmalee22 New Member

    haha i :heart: you
    :smt050
     
  11. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Well he asked :)
     
  12. scylla

    scylla New Member

    I was that close to say "my bedroom", but a: karma beat me to it and b: It isn't in the US. Damn it.
     
  13. Complex

    Complex New Member

    Oxe,

    If you happen to visit New York City, such collaborations will not be an issue to the majority of dwellers.

    New York is, very, shall we say, more drawn to couples that look good together.

    If you dress in a more “Hip Hop” manner and, your girlfriend dresses very “Preppy,” there will be some stares as both of you stroll down the street. The same thing applies if the roles were reverse.

    Bear in mind that such stares can occur if the couple offers the same complexion as well while not fitting the attire. Of course, pronunciation plays a factor as well. However, such differences are never discovered unless both parties are sharing a conversation amongst one another.

    I would say most if not all my friends from various complexions, would match me with someone who falls within the “Preppy – Yuppie” stature even though, the pigmentation differs greatly.

    Cheers!
     
  14. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    I live in Massachusetts. The south Shore near the Cape and Boston are IR couple friendly. Western Mass where I live, not so much, there are many places we can go without the "look", but they are spots that we watch for for sure.
     
  15. kneegrow

    kneegrow New Member

    for me jacksonville, florida was HORRIBLE

    oklahoma wasn't that good either
    colorado is koo
     
  16. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    Come again?

    Having spent some time in J-Ville, umm I can understand that.

    Did somebody say Southern Arizona? Oh you mean Tucsan??? Tucsan is a DIVE, takes 10 seconds to drive from one end to the other. Wildcats suck too...

    Strongest places for IR (deleted by poster) is Los Angeles, Sacramento/Stockton, San Diego, Las Vegas, Minn-St Paul, Chicago, The Natti, Cleavland, St Louis, most of the New England area and throw in Charlotte, NC and that's pretty much it.

    Some would say ATL, I would say NOT.
     
  17. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    My ex told me that in Seattle or I VVashington state in general there a lot of IR couples and it's vvell tolerated.
     
  18. rinnaye

    rinnaye New Member

    Anyplace where there's a rather large population of gays, or white men with Asian women, would be my guess. So San Francisco, or West Hollywood might do it for ya.
     
  19. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    Are you telling us more about yourself than before???

    What do Gay People have to do with a Hetero thread? (1), (2) San Fran and Oakland are okay, so is most of Santa Clara County that is my home area, I was born there, know it well. That's because California in its larger metro areas is highly progressive except Orange Country which is HIGHLY Caucasian and less tolerant, plus the Black population is low there. White women are more likely do date Asians and Latinos if they don't date White men in OC.

    NoCal and Seattle have a high rate of Asian/Black dating actually, so does Vancouver, BC for that matter.

    Basically look at the graphic of where Obama won in the Election and that will basically answer your question where IR is tolerated....
     
  20. rinnaye

    rinnaye New Member

    Absolutely Not!
    Nothing against gays, or lesbians, but what I'm trying to say is, it is a general rule that gays, and other types of non traditional pairings, i.e. Wm/Aw, then there may be more tolerance for our type of IR pairing.

    Even though I live close to Orange County, as agreed, a more traditionally conservative area in California, I've found that dating WW in Nor Cal seems to be a lot less of a hassle, or less stares.
     

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