what about bm turns you off most?

I don't think there'll be very many honest answers from ww... but if there are, may I ask that the guys don't jump on them.

And you fellers too -- what are your major gripes with bm as group?

Mine is their passivity... Bigots try to make bm out to be some raging, angry threat to society that has to be kept in check, but truth be told, bm are some of the most passive (dare I say helpless?) people on the planet. Basically just along for the ride... Jesters under pressure...

So there you have it... Now, all you guys who had so much to say about ww, what say you about bm? :?:

 

I guess I can't say that I am turned off by other black men, since other black men don't necessarily turn me on...

and, in case you forgot, you also had some things to say about white women yourself, in fact, you also had some things to say about black women in another thread.

 

I guess I can agree with this to a certain extent, but not necessarily being turned off by other black men about it.

 

Jeeesh. You bicker like a woman.

Because I have criticism of ww, and bw, I can't also have criticisms of bm? That makes no sense.

And that comment about being turned on by bm -- guy, you just pick things to bicker about... You seek things to misinterpret, split hairs about, etc..

Yet you seem to spend all day, every day, here online. Go figure. :roll:

 

He's just joking!

He makes me giggle anyway. :lol:

 

Well, you said 'all you guys', and that includes you too. Makes sense now?

So do you, that's why you always write these types of posts about how someone else posting on the site over and over again. You said what turns us off most, so I answered.

I doubt it if I spend all day, every day here, when I'm not online all day, every day. You seem to lurk these boards repeatedly, looking for something to rant about in your replies again and again. Makes me wonder about your mentality also. :lol:

 

This is what I was answering originally, get it?

 

As I said, he bickers like a hen... :roll:

 

And, you complain like an old woman on her death bed about other people's posts in here. Thanks for bickering with me again. :lol:

 

... Like a hen. :lol: ...Bickers like a bee-hatch.

Dude you have all the time in the world for this, but me?... I'll just wait to see if anyone has anything on-topic to say before I comment again...

Let the hens bicker with the hens...

 

CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG :cry:

 

Can't you just do what I do, sunstorm, and express your unresolved sexual tension with Sardonic in a positive and flirtatious way? :lol: 8)

 

You guys are so funny. I am basically rolling on the floor from my uncontrollable laughter and my brother is giving me that " I hope you don't have a screw loose in your head look". Seriously though, I would like to see the answer to the OP.

 

The fact that you have to do "black" things to be accepted by some.

 

That we have no qualms about destroying another brother's life in an instant....

That we are so willing to stand up to and fight one another but won't use that same energy on our true oppressors....

That we don't make the most of our natural aptitudes...

 

That's real talk ChosenOne. I dunno, it's like black on black crime is not seen as detrimental to the many committing the crimes. So many are caught up in the struggle, that's all they can see. Yet, the big picture is a war amongst one race. Basically, a constant struggle passed on from slavery that is still affecting BM to this day. When will they "wake up"? I have no clue.

Seems BW have more unity than BM due to a woman's less violent nature. Nevertheless, there's still some BW that have very nasty attitudes like some of the angry BM do. Like, a lot of blacks carry a chip on their shoulder cause of the slavery past and the way the government has created ghettos in which many blacks reside.

 

I am bickering with one right now, duh. Giggle at that.

 

Instead, he'd rather call me out in other unrelated threads. :roll: :lol:

 

I think this is all fairly obvious, in fact, it has an effect on how we live and conduct ourselves with one another to fight against all of these things.