what about a ww turns you off most?

turned off..

You guys are too funny

 

Re: turned off..

Funny? Tell me, what is it that's so funny?

 

Re: turned off..

The massive overgeneralisations?

I don't know where you guys go to meet these girls, but they aren't like anyone I know!

 

Re: turned off..

Basically, if there were things about BM that many WW encountered that I don't know about. So be it, I haven't been in their position to say it's "over generalized".

 

very valid generalizations,

unfortunately they inspire the "piss on your shoes, call it rain" reaction among certain white women.

the race factor magically disappears when to serve as a cover up for their deep seated prejudices, and then magically reappears in the act of expressing them.

 

Re: turned off..

I hate to be of significant irritation, but i have lost count of how many times i have heard that excuse.

 

Ditto, Cris. This thread was about what turns us off about white women, and talking about what those things are, isn't generalizing if it's true for more of them than not, especially if it wasn't meant to be that way. (We never said all white women were the way we described either)

 

the other often sought after excuse is "is it always about race?"

they just keep pissing and calling it rain...

 

Yeah, tell me about it. That's why that thread about MistressB got locked.

 

Im glad it got locked. The stupidity of some people-no names mentioned- were just getting on my last nerve.

 

I think it is really sad to hear both of you say you are glad the thread got locked. I think when people take this holier than thou attitude that some discussions are worthy to go on and some are not it is very judge mental.

If the conversation turns to bickering than so be it. Maybe someone had something to get off their chest. I think if the conversation were allowed to run its course it would eventually right itself. As we are all adults here, and maybe someone needed to let off a little steam. It happens right? But to cut people off leaves the poster feeling frustrated and at a loose end.

If one does not agree with how a conversation is progressing you have the right to leave the thread and not return. But to sit on ones high horse and judge what posts have merit and what posts don't is very subjective and dangerous because you are not allowing for freedom of expression.

I get tired of the pseudo intellectuals gassing on about nothing in particular and find their arguments full of more holes than a piece of Swiss cheese. So guess what? I just stop reading and move on to a new thread. Pretty simple thing to do don't you think?

 

I think it's really sad for you to put words in my mouth and then pass judgment about how judgmental someone else is with your holier than thou posts and attitude throughout the forums.

So, what is this? You trying to tell us what to do, or give advice none of us asked for? Or maybe you are looking for a race war. We didn't need the ratty lecture from you.

You're a fine one to talk based on this post.

Take your own advice.

 

Touche Sardonic. :lol:

Well done. It takes an extremely intelligent human being to throw an argument back in someones face. This was a prime example of what I have been talking about.

This is my last reply to you. And like some here I am thinking about leaving as well. It just doesn't seem worth it. I know you will be over joyed by this news.

 

Oh and one last thing and then I will truly shut-up. I have never replied to any other posts other than to gripe, so I know you can't possibly put me in the pseudo intellectual category. I would never attempt one of those long mind numbingly, boring, inaccurate posts. I don't fancy myself an Aristotle or a historian. I will leave those post up to your elected intellectual expert. Who could frankly benefit from checking some of his facts in more than one paperback he picked up on a browse through Borders. And it wouldn't hurt to look up some of those terms he uses in a Webster.

 

Do you even know what you are even talking about now? I don't. Pointing out your hypocrisy is pseudo-intellectual now, but all you can do is gripe about what you don't like about what someone else says, and then agree when you don't know what you are talking about. Right. Very ingenius. By the way, another example of your hypocrisy would be telling people not to cut someone off, but then ignore them at the same time. Some so-called intellect you turned out to be. :roll:

Overjoyed, for what? You wanting to leave because you can't have your way?

 

If all you can do is gripe, then that says a lot about your intelligence, doesn't it? And, I wouldn't even begin to attempt to read anymore of your whiny diatribes about the site, like the one I quoted and posted to. By the way, if something is really too long, boring, and inaccurate for you to understand, then see if you can prove that without smelling yourself over and over again in your own posts.

Tell that to him, and not me. I don't care.

 

Now i can see why less people frequent the boards. :roll:

 

re: what about a WW turns you off the most?

i hate it when you're out with a WW and she feels she has to be something she's not to impress you. don't think you have to put on some act .. pardon the phrase .. " act black " to make me like you. just be yourself .. just be a white girl .. .. that's what got me to like you anyway.

 

wow... it's kinda heated up in here y'all ...

I hate white girls that date black men but would never make one their man - just interested in testing the hype. Have to say... hate black men that do the same thing - unless you can be real about it and then I can respect your game!