what about a ww turns you off most?

please share what turns you off most about a WW? we know we love them but what are some of the bad things about dating a WW? I know it is individual, so give your individual issues please

 

Having to worry about them getting burnt by the sun and generally having sensitive skin that is easily irritated by bugs, wind and certain products etc

 

That many of them dont aren't open minded enough to date BM LOL!

 

I couldn't agree more.

 

sun burns and peeling, girls that are deathly pale, overall less ass than black/Latinas, some have no lips.

 

I don't believe it is a matter of WW not being open minded, it's more a fear about what friends, family would think. IMHO I think alot of WW find black men attractive and secretly would not mind dating BM. My observations of the behavior between white women and the locales (Caribbean)men tells me this is true. :wink:

 

its an issue of them not being open minded if they are adults and dont act like it. if they are immature enough to be so afraid of what others think this thats not open minded at all.

didnt you remember your mother saying, "if your friends jumped off a bridge, would you jump off a bridge too"????

 

There's about as many things that I dislike about white girls as I dislike about black girls, seeing as I like both black and white women I know a lot about them. The thing that I dislike most is how some of them like black dick but they secretly despise the black race and always talk about black women and look down on them. Then some of them are way too...Sheltered is the word I think I'm looking for. Like when I went to this frat party last week the white girls were so stuck up. As soon as I stepped in with my black comrades they just had this look like 'eww black people' and only one of the girls in the whole party was really dancing with us. I saw one girl backin it up like crazy on this white guy then when my friend went to dance with her she just start movin all slow and dancing unenthusiastically. Another thing I hate is their paranoia of black people. At my job for instance, one of my friends jokingly told this white girl that I like her and that I wanted her number. Due to the fact that she was pre-paranoid when I was around she took it seriously and wouldn't even come work in my department until I told her friend that my friend was only joking. As if I'd date that skeleton white ghost, ha!

 

i know, me too---and so Latinas are the happy medium

 

I can't say all white women act like the ones you ran into, but I've experienced many instances similar to yours. It's a shame it happens, but we can't forget that segregation was only 50yr ago. And there's still segregated areas in the south. So for me, when I really think about the big picture of what's really happening, I just keep it movin and laugh about some of the situations like you do. The girls you mentioned at that party, remind me of the kinds of girls in Laguna Beach/Newport Beach areas[places that are easy to 'shelter' WW because of the demographics LagBeach: 92% white; Newport Beach: 85% white] . I think it's when the girls have been less 'sheltered' and around more diverse environments [ex. Los Angeles] that they tend to act less like the ones you mentioned.

 

yeah me too DJ. there are some segregated places still in the North that are like that

 

I don't have much of a problem finding white women with nice butts. They are plentiful, actually. Here are my main problems with ww:

1) They are more likely to play e-mail tag than meet you offline. I will give bw enough credit to say that I have met some of them offline without all the back and forth e-mailing about a date that never comes to fruition.

2) Some of them are too concerned about what others will think about them being involved with a black man. But that's starting to change.

3) Some love to hear bm saying they prefer ww over all others, but you rarely find a ww who will publicly admit that she prefers bm. Not that there's anything wrong with liking all races equally though.

4) The racist ones have a way of giving you a look or sarcastic remark that makes you angry, but because she is a woman you can't do anything about it.

5) Personally, getting rejected by a ww hurts more than getting rejected by a bw because it takes a lot for me to introduce myself to a ww. It's hard for me to tell which ones are the types that don't like bm, think bm are cute but won't date them or which ones are genuinely interested in a bm. And when you get rejected by one in front of wm and bw, it can be a very humbling experience because you get those, "That's what you get for trying to talk to a ww" stares.

6) Younger ww tend to be very naive and can be taken advantage of easily. They will come across a bad bm who will use them and then they'll never want to date bm again because of that one incident.

7) A few of them think you want them just because they are white.

DON'T GET ME WRONG THOUGH, I STILL LUV YA!

 

ones who think black men are only after sex and the only relationship they will have with a bm is a sexual experiment

 

SoCal, Tucker, mosiah....all hit the nail on the head....I guess with some WW its like playing a game of chicken...

For those of you who don't know what that is...well, 2 people get in cars and they race each other for a predetermined distance...the catch is that they are racing toward a steep cliff....drive over the cliff and you're obviously dead or badly mangled...the game is to see who will "chicken" out first and hit the brakes on their car before going over....

With WW its the same thing...many of them have the same objective as BM..(getting w/each other) but they will wait you out and would rather go over the cliff than to concede the race.....a lot of WW just aren't interested in BM but many more probably are.......I agree with the person who said they are easily manipulated...its true...outsiders can't control WW....they are stronger in that regard to BW who can be controlled by people who aren't really fixtures in their day to day lives...but WW tend to be manipulated by those closest to them...parents, friends etc...most of them aren't really used to being the outsider, the one that's different, so its hard to stand alone......

Also...they are too passive aggressive...most WW I've known come in two categories...either they will let people disrespect them to their face and try to get back at their tormentor in an underhanded way or they give this impression of being real tough and impermeable...which no BM, LM, or BW finds threatening.......don't act like something you're not...

WW (like BW) are cool for the most part, but y'all need to be true to yourselves more...do what you want to do...stop trying to please everyone else

 

chosen, you are from dallas like me. did you go to highland park high or st marks? did you date girls from the hockaday school for girls and SMU?

 

Highland Park...ha,ha,ha...no..I went to Lake Highlands....the ambience was sort of like Highland Park and South Oak Cliff mixed together..good school though ...very diverse place that had some major hotties...its only about 10 minutes away from university park.....I see all the HP & SMU girls at northpark mall...damn...every guy in here, I don't care how old..would try to get some of that 18-22 yr. old lovin'

Never saw many of the hockaday, or st. marks girls...mostly saw Plano girls for some reason (high school of 5,000 tends to cause that)...all of the private school girls were hot though...first baptist, hockaday etc.

 

cause we are all boy at St Marks. I lived in Higland Park and Las Colinas.

first baptist, yes. did you play football for lake highland? I played and also on the golf team

 

I'm glad I never saw any of the st. marks girls then...whew... :smt043

no..I didn't play football in school...too small back then...we were 5-A and our kickers weighed about 180-200 lbs....

did you guys match up against Jesuit, Greenhill, Bishop Lynch and those schools or against others?

 

Greenhill
houston st john
FW Country Day
Episcopal

 

you hung out at the North park mall?? how was that?

my hang out was the HP Galleria