we talked about why women diss nice guys but isnt the same for men ?

I was reading an article on yahoo about men who like bad girls . well do guys like bad girls ?

what are bad girls ?

are they the drama queens or are they the women who date multiple men who act like they are all that or what ?

what is it ?

women who do you think men go for ?

 

Men love a confident woman. If she exudes that, she is sexy to them. Some like a woman who is feisty and some like a girl who plays hard-to-get. Men are hunters by nature, and they don't want something that is easily given to them. They like a little challenge in a woman.

Some men like bitches, but they're usually more of punk type. It's the opposites attract type ideology.

 

Had:

bad girls-will pass

I'm perfect 10 Miss IT type- will pass

popular Cheer leader type- will pass

Way to confident and domineering- will pass

Liberal and way too opinionated- will pass

Way to religious, beyond conservative and judgemental -will pass

Too prissy & to pretty DAMSEL IN DISTRESS type- will pass

Where in the heck are the down to earth, motherly, nurturing like Audrey Hepburn, spiritual, humble, drama free, understanding above avg looking WW at?

LoL. I'm going back to my cave :smt022

 

:smt056 :smt058

 

I guess around the corner...maybe you should concentrate more on the positive characteristics and sometimes she stands directly next to you..:smt047

 

YOu called my name????

:smt031

 

Yes, I did, you Liberal super opinionated DAMSEL IN DISTRESS. LoL




That was to EZ, I could not pass that one. LoL. BTW Happy BD :weedman:

 

You're picky like me. I wish I could take/make a Mr. Potato Head. I'd take all the characteristics from my exes and make Mr. Right for IB.

They're even IR too!

 

I guess there are some physical characteristics men cannot resist...especially in young years, sexual attraction counts much more than positive attributes, at this age. What I also could observe, was the competition between men. If one woman is "the Queen" all other men suddenly want her, too. So it is a little bit as if you roll a snow ball.

I am as IB convinced, that a man needs to hunt, as I always say, can he not hunt you, he will hunt some one else..

 

Exactly! If you're too much of a challenge and he's out of there! Some women/girls think it's cute and think men like that, but don't seem to know the cutoff point.

 

:smt042 I was expecting nothing less of you!:smt042

 

This is the big problem with guys, I think. The "bad boy" equivalent is not the fun & naughty "bad girl" or even the easy to drop bitch, but the manipulative Woman who always has some massive drama that you must save her from. Good Men tend to be heros, and they so they try to save the damsel. But she doesn't want to be saved. She wants them to try and save her forever, so that they never notice that she's not nice and isn't really worth saving. (eta this note: I am not, of course, speaking of Women who are genuinely in bad situations who are genuinely rescued by awesome Men. Lots of people fall in Love that way, and it's not at all a bad thing -- totally different from the damsel situation)

That said, I also know a lot of guys who stick with horrible Women, or date one horrible Woman after another. It seems to me that they think all Women are the same way, or maybe that they don't deserve any better. They totally do.

 

yea, good and valid point here, CC. but i often think those people who are trying to "save" someone else are really just masking a lot of their own issues. so a lot of guys get with an over-the-top problem chic to either make up for him feeling like he is a square and needs "excitement". OR... he wants a big time drama chic so it covers/allows him to be a behind the back dirt runner, and puts his conscience at ease.

 

My best male friend is all about "saving" women. He stuck with a horrible, horrible girl who cheated on him, treated him like garbage because he thought he could save her and make her good. Everyone around him hated her, but he continued going out with her. Now, 2+ years after they broke up, she's still stalking him and causing problems for him with his new relationships. That chick is bad, bad news.

Yes, I believe that. If they save her, it's like they're also saving themselves.

 

Let's not forget about the girl who puts up an abusive dickhead and says "He loves me" or "I can change him".

 

True, let's not forget the "I will tame that wild horse" syndrome

 

:smt006

 

That's for that other thread.

This thread is about men who like bitchy women. ;-)

 

It works both ways.

 

sometimes you just need to "give them the dick and dash",lol to calm them the hell down