I know you are being funny, but ch sp set up to supplement the custodial parent not the sole coin for raising them,, my ex deep in her bones feels she never got enough lol ,, of course she didn't I went on to a "white girl" bought a house raised "her kids" and left mine for them ,, but I get no say when she refused to work and provide a better life and just ok with state assistance living in section 8 and blaming me for her struggle lol
But you're a man P.s section 8 was the bomb.....I remember living in the projects looking up to people who had that I also remember hiding the fact that I lived in public housing because everyone teased the fuck outta me for it (even the twats growing up in shitty duplexes)....but that's another story
no shit shanay nay. since you dont get it....ill explain it to you. his ex is blaming him for her failures you stupid
Did you just call him Latoya? U a straight fool lol,, ex moved all the time once right near the projects I go to pick my kids up thinking you getting ch sp free this free that and you can't be bothered with working for something better, paid 150 large tax free to that woman,, but I'm the no good trifling mf wish was dead
Said I wasn't talking to you but you acting with some sense now lol never mad at her my ex is sick and can't help it, can't stay mad at somebody for this long without having serious issues never dealt with, I lived with her 8 yrs manic depressive at least bi-polar more than likely,, I'm always asked if she so crazy why you have 3 kids with her, I tell people try living with the extremes ,, when she was in one she was so happy loving caring supportive ya ya ya,, sexually during those times how good it was always lured me back , I'm going to change I'm sorry,,being seduced at 25 by her was easy for her, held divorce over me about being against God ( I don't believe that anymore) wanting to raise my kids knowing the stats about black kids without fathers and as krs1 told us can never trust a big butt and a smile , the ex was blessed beyond belief crazy as she is is as blessed with looks ,, body etc,, at 23 b4 our kids that woman body rival any you could ever lay eyes on,, Halloween nite 1998 last time she tried seducing me to start that crazy cycle all over again and her standing naked about doing what I wanted did not tempt me , simply told her sex wasn't our problem ,, well 2 seconds later I was gay a punk scared of girls and a mother fucking faggot , walking out of there shaking my head and me telling her this was the exact problem didn't go over well and a fatal attraction episode damn near started,, involved her letting the entire apartment complex know lol
Congrats on the end of having to deal with the court and hopefully the end of (or at least the easing of) the stress of your situation. It seems like the courts are harder on those who are actually trying to do the right thing, which makes an already tough situation tougher than it has to be. Now that your kids are of age, hopefully y'all will be free to connect with one another without the interference of their mother or the courts. Good job hanging in there. :freehug: No worries, Tarshibear. Hopefully belting it out made it easier to let it go; it's hard to do when holding it in. I so much admire your positivity and your determination not to let any negativity bring you down. I love you, you awesome woman you! :freehug:
The same can be said of mothers who are guilty of the same thing. I'd address the rest of your post, but Free pretty much covered it already. Excellent post, Free. :smt023 Exactly. Custodial parents should be doing their part in providing for their kids. There's no excuse for not getting off their asses and doing what they can to take care of business. It's just as wrong for them to refuse to handle their responsibilities as it is for non-custodial parents refusing to do so. They also have no business complaining if they aren't doing anything to make it better.