Tiki Barber & Traci Lynn Johnson

That's a beautiful family!

 

Good for Tiki! People, including me, got down on him because he abandoned his then-pregnant wife, but this relationship seems to have worked out for him.

 

I don't wanna do this but his ex was "devastated" she was with him, before all the fame. Sure this seemingly is going well but sometimes things come back to hurt you. I can't imagine the hurt his ex wife been through, especially since she's soo much more younger and knowing how the media overly sexualizes white women historically. Personally this says they got no character. The way in which it as done as well. Tiki when he was at the ending of his career got her. Besides who can't get a College blonde in today's world ?. You literally gotta stay away to not get laid.

 

I feel what you're saying about the deep betrayal of his wife. Believe me, I'm all about committed marriage. But eventually you gotta move on. Whether you hurt or got hurt, at some point it's time to make the best of whatever's left.

Hopefully his ex has long since moved on and is now is a great place. And I don't know Traci's or Tiki's mind, but even betrayers have to be able to move on after awful mistakes. Hopefully they've grown past the staggering selfishness that led them here. But where would any of us be if we couldn't move on from even terrible mistakes (both ours and others')?

 

I can't begin to understand the emotional toll it had on his ex wife. Countless sleepless nights, even the kids. The hurt would be immense. Personally i can't get behind them at all for what they would have done and more importantly how they done it. Homewrecked a family and if it's love ok great or to secure her financial future ok cool but regardless, it's a dick move on both parts. They deserve whatever is coming their way if they don't repent.

 

I certainly understand not ever again being a fan of theirs. What they did was truly terrible. My only point is that I hope they're better people now.

 

I hope his ex wife is doing ok and his kids aren't scared by their actions. Heartbreaking in every sense of the word. I know there will be occasional insta family pics but in reality, it's just for the gram man. I hope they changed as well but it was a tragedy.

 

Wow these two are still doing it. I admit I didn't think this one would last at all, given how it started.

 

Wow, great discussion there, you guys made really thoughtful points that had my own feelings on it shift back and forth.

I will say seeing pics of him with his latest 2 kids, it hurts to know that he left his first wife pregnant and about to pop, but stayed with Tracey through her births. The wounds don't heal that easily, if ever.

I pray too his ex is in a good place and happy with her own man who treats her good.

 

I guess they were meant to be. He still did the Unforgivable. And I'm not talking about cheating, as bad as that is.. that's forgivable..

 

I did not see this couple lasting this long. I'm probably gonna keep saying that at least once a year unless they split up lol