Thought people would understand

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by BoomBoomBaby, Apr 12, 2009.

  1. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    :smt042
     
  2. Emmalee22

    Emmalee22 New Member

    don't worry, karma,
    i don't think i could rap if my life depended on it!
    :smt005
     
  3. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    :smt050
     
  4. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    *looks around cautiously* Is she gone yet?
     
  5. shion

    shion New Member


    told 'ya...lol
     
  6. beautiful02

    beautiful02 New Member


    Okay girl, you need to work on a few things. I'm gonna tell you this and if you don't get it, then you need some help. Plain and dang simple. Now first you seek attention by posting those pictures and now you're saying your poses weren't sexual. What do you call it then? Cause I call it like I see it and it's you being desperate. Secondly, I'm a real nice southern girl but I can get a lil mean if I need to. Everything I said was meant in a nice way. If you took it as something else, then that's on you. But now you cross the line with me sayin that I was being nasty bout it. What the heck? Nasty bout what? What part didn't you understand bout that whole comment I made? Your boyfriend is pissed at you because your spending all your time on the computer/internet and now he thinks whatever. However, something with your relationship started way before you got on this site. Because you are already in therapy and on depression medicine and I know it's not because of this site. Just be honest, if you boyfriend aint giving it to you like you want it, then move on. Otherwise you wouldn't have seeked attention and posted those kind of pictures on here. But perhaps that's how they do it in West Virginia....you know being in love with your man and then posting pics on a website for interracial love/dating forum. It goes well together actually. It makes a lot of sense. I'm sad that you are on depression medicine and going to therapy but you need to sort a lot of things out before you start lashing out on this site when you need to be talking it over and communicating with your boyfriend if that is where the problem is at. Hopefully, you are learning something in therapy....

    Like I said, I don't like to get mean but dang it girl I don't take that crap. Take it as you want it.
     
  7. Samantha8479

    Samantha8479 New Member

    i agree!
    your off the internet for a day and Damn




    but as for boomboom!
    peace out girlscout!
    hope your things work out with your man
    but i know for damn sure that if i had a man
    i would not be posting sexy pictures on the internet.
    thats just a quicker way to end a relationship
    and i agree with everyone else on here by saying
    if your gonna leave just leave, nothing personal
    but no one is gonna lose any sleep if someone leaves the forum.
    Just move on and do your thing..




    see ya.
     
  8. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    I don't understand...

    ..?
     
  9. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    You and me both.

    What a waste of a thread.
     
  10. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    I agree about the other topic but not about her photos i didnt see any sexy pictures there.
    if her pictures were sexy then i can defently count mine also the same and a lot of other pictures here of other people ;)
     
  11. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

  12. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    I must agree on that.

    BTW, Boom, I have been in a lot of forums, communities, social network and when I was with my b/f I deleted the pics from the profiles or I just left pics of my face because I didn't need ppl to comment on me. I deleted my profiles on the dating sites, also. I don't see the sense of posting pics in sexy clothes when you have a b/f, if you are fully satisfied with youir relationship. Said this, everybody is free to do anything they want, but you can't expect the ppl not to express their opinion.

    Talking in general, obviously if we guys didn't like attention, we would have posted just one single pic to let everybody how we look like, and stopped it there. The reason why we keep posting pics is that it's just nice to let ppl know what u r doing and how you look in the different occasions etc. That's seeking attention and that's not necessarily a bad thing :). It's good for the self esteem :)

    The fact that you said that you are in depression etc, is another way to seek for attention. Don't be mad at people for noticing that! Just the action to post in a forum is like saying "hey, I'm here, I exist". We are all exhibitionists/voyourists in our little way.
    If you didn't have a man nobody would have had any problems with you cleavage ;). That's it.

    Now, please stay if you think you can accept other ppl's opinion because there will always be somebody who hate on you :) but after all.... what do we care about what other ppl think?????

    Pace e amore ;)
     
  13. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    sorry but whats wrong with this thread?( What catches your attention) :confused:
    so when you are in a ralationship you can not say anything :confused:


    anyway i think this thread best to be deleted nothing wrong to say the opinion but make the person like crap and joke it is not that nice either:(
     
  14. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    You are right. People get a bit too harsh/rude sometimes. I tried to be as nicer as I could but some ppl really have a trash mouth, sorry.
     
    Last edited: Apr 13, 2009
  15. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    i am going to go out on a limb here and present the possibility that BBB just wasn't well received...perhaps she just rubbed people the wrong way...was she judged by a level of attractiveness? mosk & nyx make an interesting point...i have seen sam in her bra & panties in the pic thread...she is adorable so no one said anything...francie flashed us in a cute lil' camisole and we all sang her praises for doing it...amazonka is gorgeous and i have seen more of her boobs than any other forum member...she has a man at home...i for one enjoy her pictures...she is one sexy russian girl...i think thick has a bra on in her avatar and the belly dancing outfits are also fun to see

    maybe it was too much too fast...trying too hard to get attention...to a certain degree everyone hopes to be noticed and/or admired at some point by someone...there are people here that have never posted a picture...some will say it's about privacy but more than likely it's about not wanting to put yourself on the chopping block...

    can you really blame BBB for not enjoying all of the attention? do you remember when you first joined the forum? posted your first pic? and then 10 more because you loved the attention...i don't think anyone here can say that they didn't enjoy getting feedback especially from the opposite sex...that is human nature!
     
  16. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    I agree with you...



    but... hey!!!!

    I've NEVER posted pics of me in bra (lingerie). Bellydance outfits yes, lingerie never.
     
  17. thepolice

    thepolice New Member

    True,the girl has some serious self-esteem issues,she's on treatment also, some here went to hard on her.
     
  18. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    1+1=2 ;)
     
  19. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    I have absolutely no idea what's going on here, though I will say this wouldn't be the first time a lot of people on this forum have jumped the judgmental gun far too soon, in my opinion.

    But it also wouldn't be the first time a wack job with an internet connection has stumbled across our little piece of cyberspace.

    Now, how this warrants such a lengthy conversation...that I don't understand. If she's really such a bad person, wouldn't it be best to ignore her? And if she's not, then perhaps a little sympathy is in order.

    As I said, I have no idea what this situation is, since I've not been around much lately, but, as I've always said around here, sometimes people deserve a chance.

    Though if she really is just annoying as hell, let's just hook her up with malikom and rid ourselves of two pests at the same time. Problem solved! Someone go refill my coffee now!
     
  20. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    Ok what is this about do you call me stupid or what? maybe my writing is not on the level of many posters here but i guess i am proud even with my crapy writing damn i learn all this with out going to any English classes.

    anyway britty no jokes with me ...me and jokes don't go well .
     

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