This is NOT my opinion but I want to know other people's thoughts..

thats it right there :smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043

 

some of em are usualy caught deep throating some dick with a little dress on in some hotel room, plus most love to try and talk ww out of being with black guys, ive seen this so much aswell its a bitch move on their part

 

I can tell you this is NOT true!

 

This is dumb this amount to "well all the [insert race] that I see are..........." and then use that as a basis to believe one bull shit stereotype or another. I'm not sure what your house mate dating Asian women had to do with anything but yeah...

This was a racist bigotted ass comment, that Black men have no shame.....and white men do. And this is the type of mutha fukka you live with.

 

Lots of thoughts:

1. Don't discuss your dating preferences with your housemate . In my experiences, most WM are utterly stunned when a WW expresses a preference for BM and think we only want them for the myth or they are just puzzled.

2. Like others have said, some people are just prone to cheat, male or female. Race is not a factor in cheating nor is it a factor how the cheater does or doesn't reveal his or hers dalliances.

3. All the cheating threads are repetative LOL

 

right!

Cheating has nothing to do with race or ethnic group, the suggestion is fucking sillly. In any event simpletons put cheating up there with murder. (real talk). many people have said the would rather their mate be accused of murder than cheating...

...that's some real fucking up human priorities right there. My my own personal believe, cheating is someplace at the bottom for reasons I would leave a wife, and some place at the top for reasons I would leave a girl friend.

 

Agreed. I just wanted to discuss people's own experience and thought on the topic.

My housemate is not a motherfucker thank you very much. He simply told me what he has heard first-hand from his own mates, going from his own experience. It doesnt make his judgement right or fair or even intelligent but it does not make him a mother fucker either.

I only just saw the other cheating threads and am sorry for being repetitive. I know that's annoying as hell, it wasn't intentional. Oops.

Also re him having had IR I simply wanted to demonstrate that he is not some kind of dude who is all about dating WM and nothing more or one of those IR haters. He is open to discussion and disagreement with his opinions and I have been reading these responses to him when I see him in order to give him a different perspective on the narrow one he has been basing his own opinion on thus far. And he is open to it and is loving hearing the different things people say. I hope it will influence him to be more open minded about it and I think it will. And that is what being friends with people is about, learning and teaching in turn. Not that he is my friend, we dont hang out or anything but do have a housemate friendship where we are quite open and honest with each other.

Thanks for the input though, I may disagree but I still like to read it! :smt006

 

You are right, he's not a mother fucker....he's a bitch ass racist ignorant common simple minded mother fucker. Its one ting to say "this is what my homeboys told me" and another thing to use that as a basis to judge and entire race of people.

That makes him a fucking idiot, and you one by relation. Who you allow into your life says more about "YOU" then it says about "THEM"

You also need to know that him dating Asian women has no baring. So? And? A white woman, tells a white man "Hey I'm interested in black men"....and this is the bullshit that comes from his lips.

...that muther fucker is simple and plain.

 

A white man dating Asian women you don't really think has this broad view of interracial dating...

...do you?

its like saying "Hey I like black men cuz i have an Asian girlfriend"
or
"I have black friends" (I love that one by the way)

This shows a bit of a limit in your understanding with regards to BLACKS and WHITES dating. Now granted its a bit different in the UK than in the US, but not that much. And the biggest differences are

1. the number of black you have in your country 70% of blacks live in London. That's 70% of ALL blacks live in London.
2. Racism in the UK is far more covert than in the US.

 

Wow. I want to negative rep for that but I wont because Im out of reps and also you're entitled to this view. But it makes me REALLY angry.

He is not racist in the way that you are bandying the word around. He said this to me in a private conversation between me and him. And Im glad that he did. And instead of turning around and doing what it seems perhaps you might have which is call him racist and tell him to fuck off, I chose to debate it with him and put it here to get input from others so I can try and educate him and hopefully change his view. Which is what YOU as a BM who suffers from racism should fucking well realise is IMPORTANT. The more people you can educate and show that their thinking is wrong, the better place the world becomes. The more people you isolate and push away by name-calling and not trying to see the root of the wrong opinion, the more racism you create. Sorry but that's how I see it mate!


Yeh I agree what he said is shit. But it means he needs to learn, no? Not be named-called and catalogued and that's that. People arent fucking perfect dude.

I let him in my life, as you put it, because I moved in here where he lived and we get along in as far as housemates go. And we have enough of a friendship that he can openly voice this kind of opinion to me which I am GLAD for because it gives ME the opportunity to change it!!

And I am not an idiot. Poo in a box to you.

 

Oh. I dont know what they're used for then? I've had (thankfully only good ones so far) for things I have said?

Yeh see, I dont get this. I have said this before, I dont believe white people can understand what racism is because we are not on the receiving end the same way black people have been (leaving aside other inter-racial racism for now)...and I'm also new to the UK. But I want to know more, so I can try to change it because it's shit.

 

Give some examples of what it should be used for then.

 

Have a (big)dick, will travel!!!!:smt083


But for real, ALL MEN are at risk for being unfaithful in a relationship. I don't think it's fair to generalize that BM are more likely to cheat than non-Blacks.


Brits are HILARIOUS.....'bad partners, but good(??) fathers.'

LOL!!

Just an unusual analysis IMO.

 

Ummm....so you are doing me a favor? Why Thank you.

so what?

So since he said it to you in private that makes it not as racist as if he had said it to you in a group? Believing that blacks somehow lack shame, based SOELY on race and white men do have shame is fucking idiotic....since you said this to you on the low that........that's fine to you? And that makes you a big an idiot as he.

If he already have a view that Black Men lack morals, and he came to this believe by talking with this *cough* black friends, and the Asian women he's dated, and women that he knows who have dated black men, you having a DEBATE with him, and posting his stupidity in this forum is not going to change this views.

The idea that he would ignore the *cough* black friends in real life, and pay attention to us........and site geared to BLACK MEN and WHITE WOMEN (which would stand to reason our views will already be skewed) makes you seem a bit slow on the uptake? I would call you an idiot but I already used the word....let me think of something else.

ha ha ha ha so you are speak fur US Negro males now? Thank you. You I'll bet you simply don't understand how offense that is? I don't know you to be the champion of black men. The newest male negro savior. And now you want to tel me AS A BLACK MAN, what is important?

When I am confronted with stupidity and ignorance, I give it the attention it deserves.

He's a fucking idiot. A moron, a brainless simpleton. If he doesn't know that you can not judge an entire race by the limited people who knows, you have ad DEBATE with him isn't going to change his mind.....

Who you allow into your life says more about YOU then it does about THEM. Housemates one thing....buddies is another. And you are buddies with an idiot, and that makes you an idiot by extension.

And the thought that white men don't cheat IS FUCKING HILARIOUS!! The idea that WHITE MEN are the ones with SHAME is so fucking funny is almost sade.

But what do I know, I'm one of those shameless black men he's speaking of.

 

Before this I would have said I had heard it all!

 

I stand corrected.

 

Whites can understand racism. The believe that one person is better or entitled to more or treated better based on race. What they can not fathom in Europe or American is state sponsored, government enforced, systematic racism.

 

Fair call. He called me an idiot. That is personal. But I wont neg rep cos I still feel he is entitled to think I am an idiot in this instance even though I disagree.

P.S panites sound fun and I want some. Can I have yours? :smt042

 

thats why the divorce rate in america is very high especially among the white families. thats why divorce is seen between john edwards, cheating is done by bill clinton, jesse james, arnold shwartzneggar and why marriage is strong with sidney poitier, james earl jones, colin powell, obama, and clarence thomas

its just a theory that your house mate has no real data to back up

 

HA! DAMNIT something must be wrong cuz I've been agreeing with paniro lately.