There Has To Be A Reason

Yeah, could you picture yourself with a real-life "Clayton Bigsby" aka the Black white supremacist? ha

 

Quite remarkable that there are women out there who believe that the key for a successful relationship is to make sure that her partner evenly distributes his attention between her and a whole bunch of other women ... :roll: :roll:

 

What part of whitewomenblackmen.com don't you understand? If you want to talk about bw/bm relationships go elsewhere.

 

You don't know either, and don't try to tell me that there's some sort of conspiracy behind it all, and that all black men are obligated to feel an attraction to black women either. Instead of looking for something to oversensationalize about, try to understand why you even joined this forum in the first place.

If you don't know the answer from reading through these forums, then you probably should be questioning YOURSELF, and your motives altogether.

 

Yes, his question is still very vague. I'm not even sure if he can make up his mind about being in here anyway. :roll:

 

i probably shouldnt say anything as Silver and Sardonic have already said it and some people dont like me saying this, but Why is Who is the boss, in this website??

If he is against Interracial dating, marriage then he doesnt belong here and is a troll and should be reported. I know I will get shot down by my brothas and others but I just had to say it.

 

Maybe you didn't understand what I mean. you can keep your eyes from rolling now.

I meant I would not date a man who would disregard a whole group of women just to be with me b/c of one difference--skin color. Most likely he has some sort of issue with himself that I don't have time to help him sort out. Capice? :wink:

 

This thread is very relevant to the site. It applies to some of the bruthas here. If I didn't think it was relevant, I wouldn't have posted it.

And by the way this is not about Black man Black woman relationships. Once again, it's about all attraction lost for Black women. If you're going to criticize, atleast make sure you somewhat know what you're talking about.

 

They know that. They're just being difficult.

 

Out of all of my 54 posts you can't find any condemning interracial relationships. You know why? Because I haven't. How could you even say that?!?!?!

I can't see myself leaving this website anyway unless I lose interest in it. And I like reading anyway so please let that alone. I'm here to sit back soak up and observe, but I'm here to kick some knowledge too.

 

If this is about lost attraction to Black women, and most of the regular BM posters have stated publically on this board why they have individually lost attraction to Black women, and their answers are obviously unsatisfactory to you (not to mention some BW posters on here, I refrain from calling them "trolls"), what's the point?

 

Honestly I acknowledge those who have a reason (for whatever reason), but for someone to say there was no reason at all just doesn't make sense. Because there is a reason - that's the point.

 

because it doesnt make sense to you doesnt mean it isnt true. many may not have a reason, and just date IR because that is what we know and are comfortable with and have nothing to do with BW

 

here is your reason:

P R E F E R E N C E :wink:

 

The best reason ever.

It's sad when adults are asked to explain their actions to people that could care less with what you have to say.

I think the real point here is to change PREFERENCE.

 

Pammy wrote:

Make sure you apply this to yourself as well......
A lot of white girls don't give black men a chance until they can't get white or other men to look at them. This goes double for the WW past 30 as the culture teaches the women that once they get past 30 or 40, WM (or other men) won't look at them as much. So they go to the men considered the lowest on the totem pole, which are BM. Don't get me wrong, this is not the norm, but it would be naive to actually believe that ALL white women that want to date BM are genuine, and vice versa.

 

Well, for someone claiming that she "don't have time to help him sort out" you spend an awfull lot of time to talk about it. :roll:

The number of men you would consider "relationship" or "dating" material is below zero then, since everyone has her/his own preference (unless they are so desperate that they would fuck with just about anybody). Some like it slim, some like it fat, some like it tall, some like the shorties, some prefer short hair some go for long, brown eyes, hazel eyes, green or blue ... ahhh...so many physical characteristics to choose from and - guess what? - all people have "issues" and will always choose from all those physical characteristics according to their preference - no whining and complaining will change that fact.

And don't forget the approx 90% of black men who will only date black women and wouldn't give a white woman a chance. I wonder how many white women are running around whining about that fact trying to convince BW that they should stay away from these men until they include WW in their dating pool or BW who are telling BM that they are not "dating material" unless they get rid of their preference and consider a relationship with WW as well .... :lol:

 

Pammy wrote,

True that, true that..... :smt023 Pammy,

I was going to say something about the part of Silvercosma saying that 90% of BM only want black women, but you beat me to it Pammy . Here is the X-factor though. When you consider what makes a partner desirable enough to date, marry, and have kids with, the numbers are DEFINITELY in favor of men regardless of ethnicity. Reason being is that in any society, there will always be twice as many women as men. The knuckleheads and thugs make my job with the ladies that much easier 8) because, as a man, you have to be a survivor and a provider. There are infinite possibilities with women because they outnumber men by millions.......I just wish that there was a way to thwart this thing of men having to always make the first move......... :smt017 hmmmmmmmm.

Ohhh, I just got an idea....TIME FOR NEW THREAD!!!!!!

 

Preference would be an outcome of a reason. What I'm looking for are factors (or reason, itself) ...