The Ultimate Double Standard!

Why is it ok for men to go crazy over big tits and ass, but the minute a woman says she prefers a man with a "big d*ck" every man (and some women) trash her as a size-hungry whore?

(This has been coming up time and time again lately.)

 

There are so many double standards concerning men and women.Especially in sexuality.
When a man's number of women he been intimate with is quite high he is considered the big pimp and not really anything bad at all but women get labeled the b-word for it.
And the worst thing is that those who label women bad are women themselves many times.

I have never understood why that is and probably never will.
All I know is that it seems that's the way society works.

 

I have no problem with a woman who says she likes a man of a certain size. What I don't like is when that is ALL she talks about, just like I find it a turn off when all a man talks about it T and A.

 

8) That's a pretty valid question actually...although I can't answer it myself.

...nonetheless, I'll continue singing the praises of phat asses :lol:

 

Same here. I was taught that it is never okay to objectify anyone. Besides, as much as I appreciate a man of "a certain size" that's not all it takes for a man to be a good lover. So when I read a woman's post that talks about the importance of physical attributes, I do a little reminiscing and recall that size definitely isn't the be all and end all.

 

Its the objectification of Black Men that's why.

They don't say I love BIG DICKS, they say I LOVE BIG BLACK DICKS, BIG DIFFERENCE.

 

Our society in general needs to get out of this ridiculous view of sexuality in woman being a bad thing.

I mean - HOW do you praise some guy for sleeping with 100 woman and then turn around and bash those SAME woman??? It makes no sense...

 

Exactly.The whole world is full of double standards. Makes me sick sometimes

 

Or closer to home.... why is it ok for a WM to be with a black or asian woman, but not Ok for a WW to be with another race ???

 

Thats what I am talking about Sarah.

 

Same reason it's OK for a BW to be with a white or latin guy, but not OK for a BM to be with a woman of another race.

 

I agree-

It's not fair that it's acceptable for men to have many sexual partners but not women.

The way to stop the double standard:

Ladies- when a good looking & intelligent man saunters up to you and starts flirting...gets your phone number and later tells you/show's you that he's a well-hung stud in the bedroom and "knows what he's doing" because he's had plenty of women to practice on......

WALK AWAY AND LOOK FOR THE NEAREST VIRGIN OR ALMOST VIRGIN GUY YOU CAN FIND. If sexually promiscuous men are always rewarded with a woman's "company"....why would they have any reason to change their behavior?

Women value experience more than men....and most men know this :idea:

 

Maybe because we're raised to believe that men do nothing but think about sex all day, every day, and they can objectify to their heart's content and people just expect it. In fact, I'm sure we all know men who don't openly objectify women and people think the guy is weird.

And women are brought up and told that we're the nurturers. We have the babies and care for them at home and we are expected to be "martyrs" for our children and not enjoy life because we're living to raise our children.
Women are supposed to be prim and proper and virginal, right? Is that thought-process still prevalent today? It takes a long time for society's views to change on many, many things....

 

as a bisexual ww I have an appreciation for a stuffie and nice titties almost as much as a 6 pack on a well endowed bm....everyone needs to stop hating on everyone else...and enjoy the view!

 

bisexual?!


How you doin', baby?

 

LMAO!

 

You talk like you want a big dick.

 

Someone's been watching 'Friends' again....lol...Joey Tribiani... 8)

 

Any man who would call a slut a woman who knows what she wants is very lame. Some needs variety as well like a box of Whitman's Chocolates.

 

hey. Can't blame a girl for tryin'!

Joey Tribiani is my hero. I'm not even a huge Friends fan, I just love that character. *L*