The Reason BM Date Out

I'm a subscriber to this guy. He mostly posts skits and advice videos but recently he posted this video on ir (or more so BM and why they do ir)

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Thoughts? Agree or Disagree?

 

The guy on the video has an interesting personality and his video was edited nicely, however his Bitch Nigga, Neutral and Thugs paradigm is problematic to say the least, along with his constant use of the n-word. Also, non-Black women are not new shit. I agree with his conclusion, Black men "date out" because we can, simple as that.

I mean, it's probably real for him, but if I'm to take him seriously, I have a problem with Black men being reduced to three categories that somehow denote levels of "Blackness".

His whole perspective on IR really comes from a homogenous Black community perspective. Many of us live and have grown up in a multi-cultural context (I hate the term, but there it is). Is it really dating out (I hate that term too) if you live, work or grow up around non-Black people?

The notion of a completely homogenous Black community (as well as White) in the United States is the problem here. If Blacks and Whites would have lived in the US as equals, this would never be an issue.

Not to say that like doesn't attract like in many cases, but the extraordinary effort that was used to suppress Black male and White female relationships was completely unnatural.

As we can see in early colonial America, before racial laws were codified, Black men and White women had relationships (like they do now) merely because they were working and living in close proximity to each other.

 

All the "Nigga" this and "Nigga" that detracts from the message. I don't think he was really making any intelligible points or offering any analysis of what he was talking about.

 

Very true. IR is just normal to us it's only a big deal if a white person is involved.

 

repped....& them some.

 

Repped good post

Personally I like what he had to say because even though it was over simplified it made sense. I for one did gravitate towards white girls when I was young er because I was a "neutral" dude. I ran cross country track did karate and played chess and went to prep school. It was as far from being thug as possible. But he had a point about bad boys though, most girls like bad boys when they're young and being black gives you an automatic bad boy pass especially in majority white areas. Shit up until my late 20s I was every white girl's first black guy experience. My gf now is the only real long term relationship with someone who has dated bm in the past. So I definitely identify with what he said.

 

He was dropping some truths in there no doubt.

 

Some would say his neutral stance is being a bitch nigga.

The term "dating out" is rediculous.

I also think his bad boy rants are rediculous. While some women often lacking a father figure will put up with an abusive relationship. To say women in general desire thugs is rediculous.

Lol being seen as a universal bad boy trust me is not a good thing. I recal making out with a chick I met, and then being asked if I could hook her, and her friends up with blow. (That's cocaine.) When she found out I wasn't a drug dealer she wasn't so interested in me. Shes from a small ass town She must have figured Id know about drugs because of my skin color. (Seems I don't attract the classiest of ladies or mentally stable lately.)

 

lets keep it 100. people who keep racxe issues going are the ones making money off of it or getting power from it

 

You think this kid is doing it for money? Race is in our dna in this country

 

if he isnt he is a fool

 

Yet, from a scientific standpoint, we are all 99% genetically the same.

I swear....

 

a closer match than that but unfortunately we are a simple minded people. We allow the least intelligent of us to rule our actions with their fears and ignorance.

 

I'm just strongly attracted to WW due to my environment growing up. That racial contrast, the grace of many I've met (I admit I like more conservative WW), and physical attraction makes my blood boil around them lol.

 

Power of the pedestal white pussy

 

Aren't you haughty...

 

Can't help it, it's my fingerhuts fault.

 

Selling it short babe.

I pray to the shrine of the pink vulva every day, thanking the good lord for making me a black man with a taste for that delicious, forbidden white meat and for creating white women :rock:

Along with their creamy, milky skin and long flowing hair down their back.

 

damn, well-said!!! TRIPLE-repped!!

 

damn, oh Tarshi. Mmmm mmmm mmmmm!!!!