The Perfect Date

What would be a perfect date for you? It has been a long time since I
have ever even thought about this subject. Not that I am about to go on any date any time soon, but everyone has there own twist to what is perfect in their own eyes. I am interested to read what ones perfect date would be.

 

Well, if it's a first date, then I'd say let it be simple, with conversation, chemistry, and the feeling that we've known eachother for a long time already.

If it's a second, or third date, then well I guess I'll just leave that up to your imagination, but I'm sure we'de think of something.

 

Chillin', playing 360 or some ps2.
Talking hip-hop, quality shit, no that t-pain, young jeezy bullshit.
Cruising around, bumping music.

Yes, yes, dead ass serious. That is my perfect date.

 

Pefect date would have to be doing something exciting, like paintballing or jetskiing something like that, then dinner and conversation and chemistry like before, and that all amazing kiss good bye, one that makes you tingle all over and your knees give out. That is the PERFECT 1st date!!

 

Going to see a play, then having a glass of wine in a cozy, discreet bar with good music.

 

You and I on a sunset beach drinking margaritas.:smt051 Let me behave.

 

First we meet and go to a movie, after the movie we get something to eat some palce where we can eat outside talk about the movie and just learn more about each other. The night ends eating ice cream while walking in the park and taking her home. Maybe some action later but that's a bonus.

 

Dinner in a restaurant overlooking the Pacific, a few glasses of wine at my place and a game of chess or Scrabble.

 

A perfect date for me would be dinner, maybe a movie, a long walk in the city, or maybe a park. And my date and I have plenty to talk about.

 

Conversation, definitely conversation. I like the feeling when the first time you talk to someone, you feel like you've known them your entire life...

 

Movie, dinner, conversation, bottle of red wine...

Afterparty.

 

The perfect date:

A date with a not so perfect date,on a perfect date (july 4th) when a sudden unexpected event happen (Like driving your car into a ditch,) and you and your not so perfect date on that perfect date still end up having a perfect date.

 

yep...it usually happens when people connect, not on an intellectual level, but spiritual. Our subconscious is very vulrenable to this aspect of emotion that we simply cannot dismiss it, when another person, not necessarily thinks the same way we do, but she somehow echoes the very voices that speak deep within us, and we can say whatever the fuck we want to her, with 100% certainty that she'd laugh at our sarcasm and even infetile jokes even if its the most stupid.

So yeah, good conversation is good. Usually underneath the stars, with marshmallows burning in thefire ,and fireflies dancing around.....with warm kisses to a girl you just met

oh damn,,,,what the fuck am i doing??...im not romantic!!!

 

My perfect date...it really depends on the person I'd be out with. A "Perfect Date" with a person who is perhaps a little more shy than I am would be something quiet, like a nice little dinner and a walk in the park after. Or perhaps picnic in a park. Something simple, normal, cliched. But I would still enjoy it a lot if the person and I were hitting it off, and based on their personality style it could be absolutely perfect.

However. If you really want to get into -my- idea of the perfect date...first of all it'd have to be a very special man or woman indeed, someone just as sporadic as I am. It'd start off with a loose plan for the evening...dinner, movie, touristy crap, anything really...but not too long into it we'd both lose interest and go off in search of an adventure. Seeing as how I somehow have an uncanny knack for finding those (or at least getting harassed by the cops along the way) I'm sure an interesting night would ensue.

I think if I ever met that person who could, and would, go on adventures with me I'd be in love instantly. I love it when I have nothing to do and I just go exploring. At the least I get a good walk out of it, and usually I end up with some damn good stories as a result.

Or the zoo. Cause I like adorable animals, and I'm a trip at the zoo because I "ooo" and "awww" over what most people think are the ugly animals.

 

Having a nice dinner.Can be home cooked or in a restaurant.Some good conversation.Joking around.A few glasses of wine and if the chemistry was right it would be PURRRFECT

 

I am a very active person. My first date with my man was going to a batting cage, then out for a couple of drinks. But we had known eah other for over a year before we became a couple. Now, anything is good, dinner, out with a group, long walk and ice cream, or snuggling and watching a movie.

 

Have you been on a date with someone who is completely quiet? You ask them why they are so quiet, and you realize they have nothing to talk about with you . NOTHING. Like they are from another planet or something. I really hate that.

 

Annoying!!!!! And then it's like, "Alright, well, do you wanna just fuck and not call me ever again?"

Oh wait. Not me...

 

Well, I have to change mine! Cause I had a "perfect" date now!

Walking downtown to the art museum together (I like walking, and it's always interesting to me to walk through downtowns since I've not seen that kinda stuff much), checking out the paintings and stuff at the museum, heading home, then out to dinner with his hilarious best friend, then driving around being sillly and laughing and singing along with the radio with both of them.

Perfection.

 

I don't mind at all where it is. Just natural conversation and intense chemistry. The rest takes care of itself!

I can tell you a less than perfect (ie nightmare scary date) I had once. anything is perfect compared to this:

- Guy took me to dinner, had met 3 times previously (no physical contact whatsoever) and he seemed fairly together. Conversation progresses, I become disturbed as he seems kind of un hinged

- I quickly finish my dinner, pay my share and decline dessert. Make a polite excuse and start to leave. He asks if we can see each other again, not picking up the polite excuse. I kindly say I don't think it will work out.

He proceeds to follow me outside to my car, asking why I won't come back etc. Then starts JOGGING along beside my car, screaming, and trying to open my door.

I floored the gas like you wouldn't believe, and ended up having to change my phone number..


My favourite 'date' was with my man after we had been together a year or so.

I'm sure some of you know, Australia has some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. They are fabulous and you can still find deserted stretches if you really know where to look.
30 of us spent the weekend camping.

We brought in generators, trucks with barbeques on them, a tent with decks and a speaker system. The men organised it all, very impressive!

Lots of food and wine/beer for those who drink.. and grass for those who don't.

It was a beautiful two nights just dancing on the sand, sleeping in the tent and talking until dawn. Ok so it wasn't a private date but it was our own perfect beach party, just unpretentious and laid back, rasta style. Just beautiful.