This for me was the best part. That she recognized that trait in him. There are folks who drink and become just wholly reprehensible to be around. I despise men that get drunk and start hitting on their wife, kids, etc. Makes my blood boil. Alcohol can bring out the worst qualities in some folks. Doesn't sound like he was doing any of that but no point in waiting for it to reach such a stage in the relationship.
:smt043:smt043:smt043 LOL, as long as she is getting that black dick and he is getting that white pussy IT'S ALL GOOD to some dudes. I can only imagine how much that would be a gut punch for him though. Imagine most men would be irate finding out that about your wife, when you thought you were working on things, but alas was not to be the case.
Aww...did I hurt Iggy's little feelings? The negative rep you left (the comment was something a 12 year old boy would say) tells me I did...LMAO! Like I said, leave me out of your silly, junior high shit, kiddo.
Not all of us. (I'm not like that.) I think divorces/cheating undermine the purpose/value of relationships. Makes it seem like there's no point to pursue anyone of any race, IMO. I wish America's divorce rate (actually the divorce rate of the Western World) would be much lower than it is today.
Divorce, death, and sickness has absolutely nothing to do with YOU being a single parent. Some people believe single parents "bastard" children are proof of their horrible decision making skills. If you dont get my point then your helpless. :::shrug:::
I think everyone got your point. She said something in general and you took what was said personal. Now the question is why? It wasn't like what she said was said to attack you.
Son, I already acknowledged the fact that you were trying to bait me with an intended insult, what more do you want? Did you expect me to get offended and upset over something I didn't take personally? If so, you wasted your time. Just because my relationship with my son's dad didn't work out doesn't make my son a mistake. Like I said, shit happens; sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't. IMO, it makes no sense to stay with or marry someone just based on having a child with him...a baby is NOT a basis for a relationship. I have no regrets about ending the relationship, nor do I have any regrets about bringing my son into this world. My son is the greatest blessing God has brought into my life other than His own Son. LOL! Yep, his point was loud and clear. My general view on the cheating issue always has been and always will be the same regardless of who it is. There was no attack intended toward him or anyone else, so if he took it personally, it's his issue, not mine.
Yeah. You're right. Your point is over everyone's head. The thread is about a woman cheating with her gardener prior to leaving her husband. How and why did single parenthood get thrown in the mix?
She was married to the husband, who burned up her things, for four years and two kids. So the other four are from another relationship?? And she is only 34. Umm wow. I feel for this guy taking on all this.
What a surprise a black guy wifing up some chick with a bunch of kids that aint his. Smdh. Six at that. He better get an extra job or two
She didn't have any trouble getting a white man to "wife her up" with four kids in tow. What's your point?? Or you are just whining?? This is a lot for a man of ANY COLOR to take on. The article I read......not the one above is accusing him of trying to get a visa to the UK. http://hellogambia.com/my-husband-m...r-read-more-httpwww-dailymail-co-ukfemailart/ It may seem bizarre that she considers this virtual marriage satisfactory. Moreover, many will consider her naive: has she not considered the possibility that her husband married her to get residency in the UK? She dismisses the idea.