The Double Standard

It's not you Karma, it's clearly him. I suspect his beef may in fact be with specific WW.

 

Bullshit. Men get backed up on this board every day.

This idiot isn't getting support because he comes across like a rapist.

 

what i think is interesting here is that men don't seem to see the other side of the coin...women get rejected by men all the time...i know because it has happened to me...just recently i met this guy for coffee...he invited me out for coffee...we talked several times...emailed...text...we exchanged pictures...i got there and thought hmmmm, he looks a little bigger than in his pictures...to be honest he had a serious beer belly...but he had a nice smile and i thought about our conversations and decided i would see where it goes...we finish our conversation...he walks me to my car...and this is the part that just blew me away...he says, can i be honest with you? and i was sure? he says, i really don't like your red hair...i liked your pics when you were blonde and i'm not attracted to you...i about fell out laughing...i thanked him for the coffee and said it was nice to meet you...went on about my day...next:smt106

 

I wish you would've said, "Can I be honest? You're an undercover fat ass". See, and some men want us to look like a 10 while they look like a walking piece of melted shit on a stick.

I totally agree. We go through rejection all the time. No one knows our side, cause we're not deemed the "hunters".

 

LMAO!!! This is so true of some men.

Some men want to have supermodels as girlfriends/wives (ones who never gain weight or age) whilst they drink beer and play video games all the while packing on the pounds.

 

Exactly....:smile:

And this dude is complaining. If we all chipped in our stories about men, we'd be able to write 1000 page menoirs from the women from WWBM. The difference is, we're not bitter or misandrists.

 

Why did he blow you away ? Hmm. Let me guess your ultra high opinion of yourself was one were you saw yourself as superior to him and that he should be thankful to be on date with you...yep I think that just about sums you up. But he caught you off guard when you didn't match his criteria. Funny thing is, I guarantee you, the fact that he rejected you, probably made you more attracted to him "Oh, doesn't want me, he's not kissing my feet, he must have some going for him" What a joke, you women are.

But it's good that he turned the tables because if you look at it closely, men are always open for rejection with girls EVERY step of the way. She can reject you when you approach her, when u ask for her number, when u ask for date, when you’re about to have sex. This makes men constantly vulnerable to rejection - hence, the idea that men's egos are very fragile but, women generally refuse any exposure to rejection at all but I've seen how women react when men reject them in clubs or bars, they start crying and S**T, calling him gay, basically going crazy. So who really has the fragile ego, here ? I think you do.

You had a polite rejection and you think you know where men are coming from. How about when women jump out of the toilet window to end a date ? How about when women grab their phone and tell you they have let their dog in ? How about when women turn up take one look at you..then turn away ? But hey, I long realised that....what we men think and feel don't matter....all that matters is her agenda

 

Yeah - men NEEEVER do these things!!!!!!!!
Grow up!

 

bleep...wrong answer...thanks for playing but please try again...i actually went into the coffee date with an open mind...him rejecting me did not make me want him more because i wasn't invested...i gave him the church one armed hug...thanks for coffee and got in my car and drove away...

btw, i am woman enough to tell a man to his face that i am not attracted to him...i don't jump out windows or have someone call me for a save to get away...i would never agree to having dinner with someone i had not already met for a quick 15-20 get together...so i wouldn't waste your money...for myself i know within the first 5 minutes if i want to fuck you or not and if i don't then i don't need a cuddle buddy or any of the other categories you mentioned...my time is just as valuable as any man's time...men fail to see this though and that is where the double standard begins and ends

 

Women don't actually jump out of toilet windows except in sitcoms.

I don't remember the last time I was in a restaurant that had a human-sized window, for one thing.

You're making this shit up. You aren't getting rejected during or at the end of dates. You're not even getting to the rejection stage. You're living a solitary life, seething in hatred at women you presume would reject you.

And perhaps they would. It'd be wise of them to do so, because they'd probably be in danger around you.

 

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Many women approach men. They are open to rejection then.

Many women initiate sex, and find themselves rejected.

Many women obey your own stupid rules and sleep with men they shouldn't have, only to find themselves rejected the next morning. Not like that's rejection or anything.

And bazillions of women see men look at them only to look away.

Speaking as a woman who has approached both genders in her lifetime: women aren't any more reject-y than men.

Your problem isn't that things aren't fair. Your problem is that you want what you want, and you don't care about what anyone else wants. You want sex, from any woman you choose, whenever you demand it. Any woman rejecting you is a bitch.

God forbid they be anything more than your own fuckpuppet. God forbid they have motivations of their own.

They were put here for you, and they just won't behave. Is that it?

The unfairness of the "dating system" was established by white men, long ago. Women say no to sex more than men, not because they are power mad, but because for hundreds of years white men proclaimed that women were incapable of enjoying sex, that women who engaged in sex willingly were sluts deserving of violence, and that a woman's primary duty was to deny sex. Men traditionally pay for dates not because Women decided it should be that way but because for hundreds of years White men prevented women from having the property rights to even have money of their own to pay with. And women avoid bluntly rejecting men outright not because they are naturally devious but because for hundreds of years white men taught women that disobeying a man meant violence ... and because many men still maintain that standard.

 

Neat. But that's clearly a school. Not a restaurant, not a date. And those are girls, not women.

I've yet to walk into a ladies' room and see some woman clambering her jimmy choos over a window sill. Doesn't happen.

 

I know.

I couldn't find it, just like it doesn't happen.

 

If women are climbing through the ladies room window to get away from your ass you got problems.

 

:smt043 :smt043 :smt043 :smt043

 

Really? He is a manipulator..

 

If I really would believe it´s true what UK says about himself- then your answer is very balanced, very polite to show up the problematic. :smt023

Should it be real- then this is the kind of sadist we were talking in the "mass rapes" threads about - if these kind of people get power- then good night..

 

What about, if she calls her brothers?

 

Put down the crack!...oh nevermind, you were a crack baby.