I would actually expect an escort to be a lot more careful because there is so much risk, they know way better than us.
Thank you my dear!!! Right back atcha I have my morals about that too and agree with you completely. On the other hand, I dont pass judgement on men that pay for an escort IF they are single or with the agreement of their spouse... I just wouldnt allow it to enter my "world".
That’s a very good point and one that I'm struggling to answer. Logically I realize that no mentally healthy man has any reason to hate women, but then again...I'm not mentally healthy. But in answer to your question. I would say it's more a case of, say your a business man moving into a city and you poured your life savings into a business idea for selling ice cream. You did extensive research about what flavour ice cream people preferred in that city. You spent thousands and thousands, went through pain staking research to do this and then you found out it was strawberry. So you then buy strawberry ice cream by the truck load and then you found out all the people who wanted strawberry ice cream bought chocolate even though your research told you that chocolate was their least preferred ice cream and because of this your business collapses and you end up having to sell your home and your marriage breaks up. Would you be vexed and angered ? Well, women do this to men all the time because I have realised that what women say they want, and what they REWARD are two very different things. Ask a woman what she wants in a guy and she will reel of a list of noble qualities, like “A nice guy who has a sense of humour and politeness and is kind” SHUT The F***K up !! You lying B I T C H !!! When was the last time you heard a woman say “Oh I just met this nice guy, he so nice and kind and polite.....AND THAT REALLY TURNS ME ON !!!! But women STILL say they want a nice guy, who is funny and kind and generous and all that CRAP that they don’t mean because guess what will happen when your that guy, yep you’ll get the "Let's Just Be Friends" line. I think this is known as "Clark Kent Syndrome" Clarke Kent the classic sweet guy, but does Lois want him ? Nope. Well, only when Superman lets her down, Clark Kent becomes more appealing to Lois. Not because she likes Clark Kent, he just gets her by default but you see this S**T throughout the media. Like in films such as Nutty Professor where Eddie Murphy stars as Norbit or Me, Myself, & Irene (Jim Carey as Charlie), the nice guy gets the girl. In reality this isn't true, it isn't what actually happens. It really annoys me to the max especially when the girls that get the nice guy act as if the nice guy is a real catch, because in reality most girls define nice guys as weak and insecure. They think that a nice guy is someone who will give and give and give and expect nothing in return. Hmm a nice guy must be some kinda dope….Eh ? In fact when women say “I want meet a nice guy” I just LAUGH then LAUGH again then LAUGH some more because what they are REALLY saying is “I’m sick of dating guys who make me so hot that I practically want to rip my clothes off for them. I’m ready for a nice guy who treats me well, even though he’s not all that sexually attractive to me.” “Besides, I’m sick of spreading my legs and being a complete S L U T, now I just want to settle down with a sperm donor, wallet and doormat .” Don't get me wrong, this isn't some "Oh I’m such a nice guy pick me" rant. I used to be the nice guy, no more because I have come to realise that ONCE a woman’s market value is lower than a snakes belly, ONCE her looks are starting to fade, ONCE the men she thought were princess are long gone, ONCE the bills are coming through the door, ONCE she is so mentally damaged, it is this point, at her lowest ebb that she will decide to give her worst years to the best men.....WOO HOO !!
According to this link the risk has a direct correlation to education on the issue. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution#Medical_situation
This is not a normal or logical view upon the issue. How about YOU take some presponsibility for YOUR results. Looking at what you write, Im not suprised you get rejected and Im not trying to be mean. You seriously need councelling to get through this warped thinking - for your own good and well being. That or you are a troll - I havent made my mind up yet.
Dude I hear you and I agree with you on some level but I blame you for being dumb enough to actually think women know what they want especially in their youth. What they say and what they want are two different things. They do say they want a nice guy but truthfully I think its closer to they want a guy who is decent with everyone but really nice to them. They have a huge thing about feeling special even when they haven't earned it. I say they in the general sense as I realize all of you aren't like that but ladies be real for a minute please suspend the nonsense for a second and tell the truth. A guy who is aloof and less attentive is more likely to get you then a guy who is nice too quick. We as people feel like if it wasnt hard to get it ain't worth having and that's where we all mess up.
Whoa, slow up Andrae. That's complete BS right there. Who the hell is gonna give the aloof guy the time of day? Not me.
Ok aloof might be too strong a word but someone who doesn't come across as interested to early. Better? lol
I agree with this - if you are aloof towards me, I will write you off. You can be Adonis, aloofness its a complete turn-off. If I dont see genuine interrest and niceness towards me - no ceegarrrrr. I just wrote somebody off this week for that very reason.
Fair point and I read your previous post which was good too. I do agree with you though that people want what they can't have or is hard to get. I know full well the way women want cool, distant, out of reach guys. If a woman can get a guy without any effort, that guy must not be 'worth it.' This leads to women chasing after men who seem aloof and difficult. What women don't understand is that if a guy is being aloof and difficult with you -he actually just doesn't want you - otherwise they wouldn't act that way. I just think here, in cyberspace, is one of the few places, you can just say what you feel (To an extent) and let the anger out and as I've said in the past and I'll say it again. I am fully aware that men can suck too, but at least women's pain and anger is recognized and taken seriously. Men are simply told to shut-up and deal with it and you wonder why men in every country commit sucide way more so than women.
Wow, this has been an interesting if not twisted little thread. UKBlack, you are coming across as incredibly bitter and angry. If a potential date gets even a whiff of that stench, she'll be gone before you even get seated at the restaurant. I love reading men rant about women having all the power. It is entirely too entertaining. Where was the power before women could vote in north America, before they could wear pants, before they could attend university? Where is the economic power sitting? Certainly not in a majority of women's laps. Who holds the power in government? Who heads most corporations? The only thing men want from women is for them to shut up, get naked, put out, and pop out a bunch of babies, then because her body has irreversibly changed from his predilection for procreation he dumps her for a younger fresher model so he can start again all the while she's trying to feed all of his spawn and educate them and not tell them the truth about what a freakin dog their AWOL dad is. ooops, sorry that was a little bitter too. Guess we all have it in us. Seriously, as the board has advised numerous others, don't spend a fortune on dates. I will always pay my way (going dutch I think the term is) and would never want the man to pay for me. Why is that? Because then he'll likely expect me to put out and why the hell would I do that with someone I've just met? I am not a whore, I can't be bought. I would like to address one thing that has come up in one of your posts: smart men are sexy as hell. I have met men that weigh 90lbs, shorter than me, glasses, scrawny little fellas and because of their brilliant minds I fell head over heals for them. I've even fantasized about a physics prof that I had and it mixed sex with him talking about physics! lol serious. I love a sharp mind. So not all women are looking for the bankroll/doormat. Anyways, far too long a post. Sorry 'bout that. Oh yah, and sorry about the massive generalizations. Y'all know that's not how I truly think. lol
Men continously want women that are out of reach as well, I would venture to say probably at a higher rate simply based on teh nature of how men and women are driven. This is not a problem for one sex - its all over the place. It is NOT ALL women - or men - though. And nope - womens pain and anger is not recognized more.. that is pure BS. As women are more emotionally drive,n I think its fair to say that in relationships, women get hurt more often than men and men also recuperate quicker than women do - in general. You stating that men committ suicide more than women in this context implies men do it because of women wich is pure BS. Most suicides stem from issues that are more complex than that. The discrepancy in numbers of _sucessful_ suicides are said ot be due to the fact that men use "more sucessful methods" and that is a quote from the internet.
I am gonna side with andrae and play the devil's advocate here.... If you're Mr. IT in all aspects of life, you can be as aloof as Bill Murray but most women will tap dance for you. It is what it is!
Nope, don't do aloof and don't care what they got going for them. Really the guy that does aloof and hard to get isn't getting anywhere with me, cause I'm not going to make a move, let alone chase him. LOL, what an amusing concept that is.
i will admit that in my youth i did enjoy the aloof man as i loved the chase and the challenge of getting the man (yes i don't have a problem with making the first move)...and i ALWAYS bored of him once i got him. the aloof man bores me now.
