If eHarmony wasn't such a big dog in online dating...the LGBT community wouldn't take as much offense. I can understand their point in the sense that even if they started their own site, it would be difficult to advertise on network television and get the exposure of an eHarmony. It might have a lot of members but it would likely have an underground feel and not the mainstream, formulaic vibe that many LGBTers might want....a more mainstream site means more members and more members means more options. Somehow I think this might be more of an issue if we were talking about BBW's, blacks or Latinos.