Still a Virgin does that decrease attraction?

Engaged is sexual acts but not a virgin.

Ain't this some shit??

So....you're a "virgin"

 

lippy knew this was coming down the pipe...this is a not so new trend today...most teens do not consider oral sex...as sex...for them it is just like kissing...exchanging nude pictures as if they are showing off the family pet...to top it off...it is not unusual to have several partners and/or play in a group...it's a whole new ballgame out there and as the mother of a teenage son quite mind boggling

 

I also read in a magazine article a few years back that many teenage girls are engaging in anal sex only, so that they're still considered "virgins".

 

When ppl (ladies) refer to virginity, it is always their Vagina they speakin' off. I know back in HS lots of middle eastern and Indian chicks who were having oral and anal sex so that way they satisfy their partner and still remain virgin. So when someone says they are a virgin they're usually not refering to their oral or anal cavity.

BTW-Empress Satine- if you value your virginity very well, dont give it up to any loser or dont get pressured when you not ready too. You are an attractive college student, if you dont want to be rushed and would like to wait that is you prerogative. If anyone tells you that you're a dork 'coz you didnt give it up, tell them to buzz off!

 

Fixed.

 

:smt060 :smt060 :smt060 So, Empress, how YOU doin'?

 

We called a cease fire but boy do I wish fam

 

You are fine, there is nothing wrong with you being a vaginal virgin. Its your perogative. Its quite noble if you ask me. If a man doesn't respect your decisions in the bedroom he will not respect you outside of the bedroom.

 

Simple Answer, NO

Why this is still a conversation in 2010, no fuckin clue. If your a virgin, in whatever way, so fuckin what. It doesn't mean ANYTHING. If you choose to give it up or not, the planet really isn't going to blow up or anything. It doesn't mean ANYTHING. If your cooch was Fort Knox, THEN IT MEANS SOMETHING. I would try to break in, but I'd be shot dead for steppin on the lawn.

It's really just another hole, nothing special.

File this one under: Just another lady that thinks their vagina is made of gold, which it isn't. Sorry to burst your bubble.



P.S. If you've never come across one of my posts, don't take offense, I just have a serious habit of Keepin it Real, with no sugar coating. Nothing personal. I'm also a Taurean to the 10th degree (Birthday May 5th). :smt023

 

the just another hole bit made me think of intrigued straight away...if there's a hole, he'll fill it...!!! :smt057

i miss him :smt049:smt049:smt049

 

plenty of room in the "foot in mouth" thread for you...right next to lippy:smt112

 

Well, her stance will certainly weed out the ones that think like you. So she wins then.
If you are just looking for a hole, its clearly just another hole.. but if you are genuinely interrested in the person that said hole is attached to, then you wouldnt say that.
She clearly is not interrested in a dude that looks at her like "just another hole". Very few women would, even if they were not virgins.

I dont think wanting to stay a virging has anything to do with thinking your vagina is made of gold - whatsoever. Your way off track here.

Someone that is genuinely interested in HER and not her hoohaa would stay.
That happens even in 2010. It might be slimmer pickings but there are men that think the say way out there.


To each their own.

 

Very true. There are still people in this day and age who wait until *gasp* marriage, to have sex.

 

Damn dude, that just sounds wrong. Brought the paramedics in?? damn. Well, to those that think from my earlier post that I view "women" as just another hole, you are greatly confused. I never said that. Stop being so sensitive. I said the vagina is just another hole, as it is, among many. Vulgar, maybe, but still truth. There was a time in my life when i thought having sex with a girl was special. Then around the 30th different lady or so it just became like riding a bike.

I know what women look for in men, and for the most part, ALL have been seriously misguided since the first fairy tale they heard where the prince whisks the princess away on white horse. (Why that horse was always white is another conversation entirely). There is nothing wrong with wanting love, or a man that respects you as a person. But there are no princesses out there, unless they are legit royalty. Stop waiting for that prince to come. A man is who he is, and all love actually is would be accepting a prospective partner for who he (or she) is, flaws and all. I'm sure there's something great about them too.:smt055

 

I totally got you, no worries.. and Im not one bit sensitive, I dont care one bit what you do - you have a righ to do whatever you want - if everybody is consented.

Clerary you havent met a woman you loved or even found uniquely sexy without getting emotional. I acctually feel sorry for you, but Im sure you get there. Besides, seems to me you are missing out on some really awesome sex also with that attitude even causal sex included in that.

Im old enuff to know the prince does not exist, but that is a far cry from your stance. Plenty of space to cover between those two. Ill be damned if I sleep with someone that looks at my vagina like just another hole... that implies he doesnt give a shit about who it is attached to. Vaginas, even if its causal sex for you should be all different or you could just go buy one of those plastic blow up dolls and be done with it


I might not believe it will last forever, but the guy has to be able to go beyond "a vagina is a vagina", then he doesnt care who it is attached to. You are missing my point.

If Im looking for just sex, then I dont care what you think. But look for someone more substantial is not equal to "looking for a prince".

Its not black or white as you seem to think.

Edit : btw, just because I dissagree with you, Im being sensitive.. thats acctually pretty funny, and reflects more on you than me.


BMJ, who is a self proclaimed womanizer of sorts clearly gets that. I think his post was very good - he shows he gets that and I think that means a lot coming from him.

Im just curious what "memorable" meant in that case BMJ

 

There's some holes in this thread. Assholes that is. :roll:

She doesn't think she's on some fucking white pussy pedestal, nor does she think she's holier than thou for being one.

BTW, I'm a Taurus too, so I'm very honest, just not a bitch.

 

love it...if it's just a hole then that must be what they think of their hole too...no harm no foul taking it up the ass...after all it's just a hole:butthead:

 

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

Bend over bitches! Bubba has a nice big one for ya!

 

:smt036
While we are at it, stick on in his mouth too - its just another hole!!!






:smt025

 

You ladies crack me up!! :mrgreen: