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  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So its ok to be considered white with a black parent? What country are you from? Sounds like third world racial ascension to me.
     
  2. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    Why not? Its perfectly fine to consider them white and vice versa

    "race" is a projection of perception

    Since many African ethnic groups can tell the difference between themselves and other ethnic groups, if a person is half or 3 quater white for example, they stick out immediately.

    the average person would project what they think the person looks like to them (white) on that person


    It has nothing to do with ascension or descension
     
  3. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    The problem with this issue is that people try to impose American lenses on everything. Many people dont even see it as "race" per say

    Its just a physical description of a person

    The average Amhara or Tigrinya sitting on the Ethiopian highlands probably does not consider a Yoruba man his "race" in any form of fashion



    Americans might find this hard to understand though
     
  4. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Swirl. ;)

    I don't know where you got all that crap. I never said "black" is meaningless. To many people, being black is more than what they look like. Your definition may be different, but that's your prerogative just like another person's defintion of their blackness is their prerogative.


    The saddest part is, whether we like it or not, it's the reality of the situation in America & it has to be dealt with because it doesn't seem to be going anywhere any time soon.

    Sad but true.
     
  5. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    It's so different from the US, where whites and blacks are both trained to look at facial features, hair texture, and more, because of the acute sensitivity on matters of race. That's why I think lots of people are disagreeing with you. Over here, people look at the fullness of Mariah's lips, her wavy (straightened hair), butt/hips, everything and can tell she has some black ancestry. It's like the flip side of the African example you noted where people see the whiteness of a biracial child stand out. Over here people are used to others opting out of the black race if they can, and so we pay close attention to every characteristic, and we see the black features standing out, even if they're hard to detect to someone from outside.
     
  6. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Now that's just horseshit. Especially in third world countries where being considered black or white is the difference between a life riddled with hardship and one of ease. The way you speak(it may not be your intention) comes across as a desperation to be distanced from being considered "black" since it holds such a negative perception world wide. Again where you from exactly?
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Your examples except for the ohio couple don't satisfy the argument since they took place in other countries. We've maintained since the beginning of this relationship that this was about an American pov. Any your examples are people who are not just white in skin tone but in hair texture and eye coloring which make a huge deal. Most multi racial kids have dark eyes and browner skin so why is it so hard to understand why they are considered black in this country where the parameters are white and non white. And non white usually means black
     
  8. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

    You need a cat scan..lol
     
  9. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    The situation exists because people subscribe to it which you are doing unwittingly.
    I mean its on this website that Ive seen people insisting that so and so be called a certain race based on a one drop ideology.

    The same way you look at your son and maybe feel he does not look like you totally is the same way a lot of ethnic groups in Africa would look at him and feel he does not look anything like them at all either.


    I was illustrating how silly it is for a person to be insisting on a definition that is completely ridiculous
     
  10. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I totally understand this having family in the islands and the US. However, the US world view HAS largely been foisted on the world in most respects. I have noticed a growing 'Americanization' in the way people perceive things around the world, a sense of homogenization.
     
  11. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    You have no idea what you are talking about do you?
     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    No one insists on it being true but that it's practiced. Btw Africans as a whole don't get to tell Americans what we should consider black. You guys have more racial issues amongst people who look similar to you than we do. Stop throwing stones fam.
    And as far as Tam's kid is concerned I'm sure he looks closer to "black" than "white" and here in the US thats the litmus test my friend.
     
  13. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    There is some truth to that especially when it comes it comes to racializing the world. The American lenses especially when it comes to "race" is very bizzare


    Many black Americans for example dont realize that if a black and white American travelled to say Somalia, both would be seen as foreigners equally. None would be treated as somebody of the same "race"



    What people percieve as "race" here in America is very different in other parts of the world

    Somebody in Somalia would definately not percieve an Ashanti man from Ghana as his "race"


    but I dont know how to explain that to Americans
     
  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member


    I'll say this in all caps so you can follow since you're acting slow.

    YOU COME ACROSS AS A MAN DESPERATELY SPEAKING OUT AGAINST THE STATUS QUO BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS UNFAIR TO BE CONSIDERED BLACK(EWWW ICKY I KNOW) WHEN YOU CAN ESCAPE RACIAL OPPRESSION BY CLAIMING WHITE.
    Whether you intend to or not is neither here nor there this is how you are coming across.
     
  15. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    like I said, you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.

    All you do is project the only lenses you have in life of issues that are very different from what is on hand


    You probably have absolutely no idea how societies have historically functioned in African societies either
     
  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Exactly.

    My family feared this very thing for my son. They were really hoping that he'd be born able to pass, so no one would know the truth when I moved back home. Of course he couldn't pass & the situation got ugly.

    Yep.

    I think you hit the nail on the head with that one.

    Well said, Orejon.
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    What you're talking about is nationalism not racial identity. I'm a black man of Jamaican heritage but I can definitely tell the difference between a white person from Boston from one from Paris. So bad example
     
  18. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted

    :rolleyes::rolleyes:

    At this rate, you might need to check into mental rehab soon.


    There is a lot to the world that you have not experienced. The fact that you keep blabbing about "escaping a racial identity" only solidifies that point


    Why would anybody want to escape a "racial identity"? What status qou are you talking about?


    You are completely clueless on a lot of issues which is why the first thing you jump on is "you are running away from a racial identity"


    its the same mental abyss that prompted me to comment on this thread in the first place


    caging yourself and your mindset in meaningless things
     
  19. Iykeg

    Iykeg Restricted


    You cannot even grasp the concept of what I am telling you can you

    It has nothing to do with Nationalism


    It has EVERYTHING to do with them percieving you as not having any thing in common with them similar to the way they would percieve a white man

    But of course, you probably dont have any concept of what I am talking about
     
  20. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    jimminy cricket
     

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