Stalker Stories

I met my stalker on okcupid. What's up with these girls online mane?! I'm cool online dating websites right now lol

 

I agree that many people probably don't experience life-threatening stalker situations but there are a heck of a lot of women I know who've dealt with men with stalker-like tendencies! One guy I dated for a few weeks last year (who turned out to be married) still emails me or gets at me on kik or voxer every.single.day. He's suffocating with the "I miss you", "I need you to talk to me", "I don't understand why we can't make this work"...hmmm, cause you're married lol!! I never told him my address, yet I've found him waiting outside my gate at home three times. I use the back entrance/exit now. I get random flowers on my doorstep, not signed but I know they're from him.

Another ex would come at me every week or so trying to get back together, nothing obnoxious really...until he found out I was seeing my current guy. Then his texts began getting creepy, saying I really fucked up letting him go, I'd realize what I missed out on eventually, I'll pay for not seeing how good I had it with him, etc. I blocked his number. Then he hit me up on kik saying there's five different ways he could get into my house if he wanted to. I wrote back to let him know my 6'5 300lb bf lives with me and that we own 7 guns lol. Haven't heard from him since.

No matter how honest you are, if things end and its not a mutually agreed upon ending, sometimes people get weird.

 

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True indeed

 

note to self.....if you date woman online...expect a rabbit in a boiling pot.

note 2....dont date woman online.

 

Lol learn from our mistakes man

 

lol

 

Careful with mixing business with pleasure. When I worked in finance I started having sex with one of the administrators at one of the agencies that provided a service for the organization. It was someone that I did not have to see at work everyday, but she would always call me rather than my coworkers for inquiries because we were fucking and the business connection gave her an excuse to yap with me all day. She would call me throughout the entire day and the convo would be 5% business 95% personal. Not cool at all, I like to focus on making progress while I'm at work, if I get ahead I would rather do homework or read, not yap on the phone. A. Anyway........I wanted to break it off because she started fucking me up in bed. I realized that the scratches she was giving me were more motivated by marking her territory than anything else. You can imagine what happened when I tried to break it off. Of course she had a way and a reason to keep calling me at work. My boss a lady at the time was the noisey type. She knew who I was fucking. Not cool at all. I had to call bluff on all the threats from the crazy girl and hope that she would eventually back off. luckly she finally did. I know I'm a stickler for not mixing business with pleasure, but this was one time that I slipped up, actually set up by one of my wild home girls.

 

Scarlett Johansson or her look alike can stalk me for an entire weekend i wont be mad. Just dont show up unnanounced at my door at 6 am cus my wife is 5ft 10 and has a mean kick

 

women stalkers are nothing to joke around about, i was truly concerned when she told me that. the frightening thing is when you think about courts and ww word against a bm.

i spent a good 5 year or so online dating and one thing i have learned is you get what you pay for... those free ones everyone should steer clear of.

 

This is so true. I have met some great guys with the pay sites and some real duds with the free sites.

 

classic

 

I was fresh from the academy. FSP hired me right away because there was a lot of turnaround there and they were in desperate need for more officers. I tried to be fair and professional. But, I was not like my fellow officers. I was weak but I did my job and left with my dignity intact. Being "hard" takes time to develop. My focus was on my job, my fellow officers and following the guidelines of the state. I didn't belong there. My fellow officers knew it and so did the inmates. Some of the Muslim inmates tried to convert me. But I didn't let them. My beliefs were my own. One officer told me that I had made enemies among the other officers. He said I was a good officer but not good enough for FSP. This experience showed me a world that was different from mine. And I learned from that world. Would I do it all over again if given the chance? No. I would go into law enforcement and be a cop working for the city, municipality, county or state. But my PTSD at the time after resigning would not let me. My mistake was falling for the fact about state benefits. I had met many state employees and the felt as I did at the time that working for the state is great but you have to survive in between to get there. It was all a learning experience. This job isn't for everyone. But some people do it for various reasons. One sergeant told me that he would rather be a CO than a cop because he has control of the inmates. A cop does not have that control until after the criminal is apprehended.

 

No one should have to tolerate such bullshit.

 

This is where dual use tools can come in handy like a combination lock planted firmly in your hand wrapped around your finger; a sure way to put knots on his head. Skip the knives and carry a box cutter for some serious slicing. I don't encourage violence, but self defense doesn't mean letting up when he cries uncle. If you must defend yourself you have to be very brutal in the process. If he gets the upper hand he will show no mercy.

 

It sounds like it's time to get the police involved. After a certain point he's breaking the law (although the law on things like stalking varies from state to state).

And seriously, what kind of asshole gives out someone else's phone number? What in the actual fuck?