something is wrong here

Like I said 30 pages ago.

 

Don't you know White Women come with the pedestal included? Thus, my explanation of some of the BM on here below.

 

xoxo breaks it down yet again.

 

again, those are separate assertions for two types of men on here, the second claim is more part of the disrespect crowd. Either way, I don't think either type is conducive to creating or sustaining an environment for WW on the board. This might not even be the real issue, it could be just the way the men and women engage on the forum that makes it seem more male dominated. the two more opinionated ladies have left, which is bad, the men get into it, but usually come back.

 

If a Black man can't tell or feel a White woman is special without affronting his sense of self, then he doesn't need to be with a White woman.

 

LoL,

WW aint special to me. I dont really care if it is on a website or the real world, I aint worshiping her shit. And this is coming from a person who has dated several WW, been in serious relationship and engaged to one b4. If a woman happens to be my wife/life partner and she is GOOD to me regardless of her color, race, creed, origin and religion then I will respect her, cherish her, love her and adore her but I still wont worship her.

I know smooth you didnt mean that comment to me but it reminded me of something,,, right about now I would rather be a mama's boy than working, lol. How I would love to be a mama's boy sit in her basement watch TVo and scream for milk and cookies. My mama was so good to me, lol, I miss my mamy. I am handing my resignation and running to mother's house, lol.

 

As long as you know I wasn't directing anything towards you.

Don't we all wish we didn't have to deal with a shitty world.

 

Some White Women are Special, Some Ain't, hopefully every Woman is special to someone. This is not about saying 'White Womenhood' is Supreme, this about BM "negotiating" their attraction to white women on here. No one is even making these platitudes outside of fools like tford, but a few statements and supposed "downplaying" of other women and suddenly it's on some worship shit.

Some of you dudes are more than willing to accept the same sort of praise when it's Why do white women love black men?, but let a Black man say why he loves white women and then it's worship, and retorts like WW aint special to me is acceptable.

Let a WW say that about us? and doubt you would type: BW aint special to me without pause or detailed follow up. We are talking about real women here being special, not some on a pedestal, precious, missing white girl archetype.

 

xoxo- Definately agree with this statement, that should be the bottom line of things.

I dont accept or get high when WW praise BM by sweeping generalization. Also the ppl who know me know that I dont really care about praises be it about me, my race, or accompolisments. I am just wired like that, Call me weird bruh.

 

You da man and the best moderator on the forum....... sorry bro, you are just going to have to take that praise.

 

LoL, I'm outtie. Y'al can write a PhD dissertation on the admiration of Vanilla skin. I will go sit my blk ass in the corner, my bad bruh.

 

That is the thing that I think is a remnant of historical circumstances.

If we were to talk this way about Black women especially, Asian women, Latina Women, no one would say stuff like worship and such. It would be viewed through a different prism of the attraction.

As soon as a white woman comes up in relation to a black man's interests it generally becomes reasons such as him not being comfortable in himself, hating black women, status improvement and a host of other assertions.

Yes I find white women sexy, yes I find them pretty, yes I am attracted to them over other groups of women and that is what it is.

Better to keep it 100%, than be politically correct and skirt around the preference, because I'm not going to change my taste in women for anybody.

 

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You're cool in my book.

 

Well stated brotha, well stated. That's some real shit right there.

Massive reps for that.

I can acknowledge that its part of the whole social construct of history between blacks and whites that lends to such opinions from some about a black man talking too positively about his preference for white women, especially if its over black women. Certainly a hot button subject very often.

 

ROFL.

 

My view is there are so many people in this world of different varieties, that you just have to go for what you love in life.

You live once, make the most of it, so that day you have to you can leave the world knowing you did the things you wanted to do, living life the way that made you happiest.

There are tons of brothas out there that dig black women to the core of their being and that is their thing.

I'm a very romantic and passionate dude, and find that for me that attraction to white women is deeply expressive of that.

 

Its all about not having any regrets.

 

Without a doubt.

I'm not going to get with a woman I'm not comfortable with and feel compatible in our interests when it comes to a relationship.

With the phenomenal growth of interracial relationships between black men and white women, via marriage and just cohabitation, surely these folks are together because they see something in each other that they liked moreso than because of exterior conditions around them.

 

Sometimes these threads inadvertently reveal the distance between the want and the wanted.

 

Oh Yea!

I can't sleep becaus of the car accident I was in last night. I love what you wrote, more so that last sentence. :smt058