something is wrong here

I have seen a dwindling of our beautiful white goddess, what is up ?

 

You guys told them they were fat, ugly or bottom of the barrel and they moved on. There used to be more women than men here.

 

I never said they were fat or whatever. as a matter of fact you need to go see my chubby chaser thread.

that thread is dedicated to so called chubby women and the men who love em and vice versa.

dont forget the idiots that spew stupid rhetoric that would alienate everyone.

 

I am saying you guys as in the men not necessarily you, goody. I haven't seen you say anything bad to the women. The ones who have left who have talked to me about it generally say being degraded isn't fun.

 

I see. I hate that because this is a great place for like minds to have serious and sometimes silly talk.

also I kind of believe that those who created the toxic environment are pretty much gone...dont you think.

we (you and other mature folks) need to take over and come up with topics that will keep things popping on a mature level

like this thread

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14382

 

Not this brotha, I will treat others with respect, but I do notice this place is becoming a bit too much of a wiener fest.Too much franks and beans isn't cool.

 

If I cared enough, I'd reinvigorate things like before but that's not me anymore.

 

This forum is no longer geared towards white women, just Black men talking about how they don't get the best in society, all the while fawning over Black and Asian women.

 

Hey Trey and I still love the White girls with a passion

What I would like to see is the women putting forth more discussion points. It seems like its primarily up to the brothas to broach topics.

What's up ladies, get your talking points out there. Right off the bat I know Tam has started some terrific threads around here, some of the other ladies just go with the flow.

 

haha everything comes full circle.

On a serious note, I don't think that having a particular interest in interethnic relationships should be a requisite for membership. I post here because it lets me poke fun at some of the absurdities of modern life. When I choose, I also like to throw in thoughts on politics, economics, or whatever.

It's not like being here constitutes taking part in something exclusive or highly valued, so the incentive to remain largely depends on the quality of interactions. If more men followed the example set by Max, Arch, Loki, BA, karma, Sir Nose and the previous version of saty, it will pay off dividends.

 

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Cause they damn sure aint on here....

 

Shouldn't these interactions, highly valued or not, be seen as a part of a community of exclusively Black men and White women interested in interracial relationships?

 

Amen!

Like I've always said, this board seems more about IR dating as a whole and not exclusive to BM/WW, although that used to be the premise. Keywords: used to

 

Not necessarily, despite the categorical name of the site I never made it an expectation to interact exclusively with any particular kind of person. If the men are on point, the type of women they want will follow. Assuming that's what you're here for . . .

 

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Most certainly should be indeed from my standpoint, because what you find is if someone isn't geared towards that they can often bring in unneeded drama and strife towards discussions because of their positions on black men, white women relations in general.

They sooner or later start throwing out stereotypes, suppositions, assertions, and ignorant innuendos. Reminds me of the black woman that showed up here to invite us to her forum and telling us about the glory of that forum and how we could learn something from it, W.T.F. I have never been once and don't intend to because I couldn't care less about it.

 

Well, seemingly we need to take it back to that point.

 

I don't think it can go back...lol

There's literally only a handful of us who date exclusively, a lot of people here date across the board, so there's always been an open door policy in that regard, but now it's scurried away from the basis of it.

 

Well, that was a general question, but what kind of people did you expect to interact with on a forum for whitewomenblackmen.com, the # 1 Interracial dating site for White Women and Black Men?

According to you, only about 5 or 6 of the men are, which could mean the type of women they want are not on this site or have been driven off. Why am I here? Because I'm a Black man that likes White women or "I'm here for highly valued interactions in a community of exclusively Black men and White women interested in interracial relationships"...

 

From what I see (and I hope I can explain this). This site is mainly geared around White women who are attracted to Black men (and the inverse). The very strong attraction between both men and women. Add to that it is on the back of a dating site.

...that alone should translate into almost an over flow of folk to the site. So what's the problem? The problem is the vast majority of women aren't within a stone's throw from the vast majority of women. Did that make sense? Do you know why ladies get in free before 11 at the club? Because the more women you can get into the club, the more the men will come to "try their luck"

...that "try your luck part" for the most part does not exist here. A forum on a dating site THAT HAS NO DATING..... For the most part there will NEVER be a chance for either to meet the other. No chance for dating, no chance for hanging out...done. And its not that dating has to be done. Most cats that hit the club probably know they are not going home with the woman of their choice, but its the CHANCE that attracts them.

Its like going to a forum geared towards the Kawasaki Super Bike and you don't have one nor will ever own one. Yeah you will hang out, learn something.....oogle at pictures, but sooner or later you are going to leave. Now if you tell the person "Hey coming to this site and there may be a chance you get to ride one or win one" not you have changed the game.

And I've looked around the site, I really don't see where the traffic has picked up or dropped off by THAT much. Oh and you will find a good number of white women that are attracted to black men.............on mostly black sites.

 

Man I was surprised at all of the WW I saw some years ago on Black Planet. I wasn't a member but my female friend showed me and her message box was always full.