Something I found out about myself.

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by kenny_g, Jul 15, 2008.

  1. kenny_g

    kenny_g New Member

    Have anyone on here been into bm or ww since they were litttle?
    Because you know how some gays say they knew since they were little?(Not the ones that always say since birth, doesn't make any since.)
    I have heard some that date interracially say that on different forum groups.
    How about anyone here?


    Me, I always thought it was since I was 14, but I sat back and looked back at my child hood and from my crushes on t.v. to crush on the girls in
    elementary school and my "girlfriend" in elementary school to my first kiss
    they were all whitegirls. My very first huge crush was on Jodie sweetin from full house. So I guess I could say since I was 6 I was into white girls :lol:

    The reason why it always flew over my head is because I have dated black girls from ages 12-14. But I always had hints through that time.
    Because I was still more into white girls and my fantasies and crushes were still white just not my girlfriends(2).
     
  2. Bryant

    Bryant New Member

    Interesting question Kenny. When i look back, i can definitely see a pattern, but not necessarily with white girls right off the bat. When i was younger, my preference was always for "light skinned" girls, or mixed girls. I once heard someone say that black men who are mostly interested in "high-yellow" black women will eventually be the same black men who date and marry white women. I don't know if that correlation is accurate or not, but it is interesting. My older brother was also interested in light skinned black girls when he was younger, and when he got older he started becoming more interested in white girls just like i have.
     
  3. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    I liked black women as a child and still do.

    Today I have no strong preference for a certain ethnicity, all groups produce their fair share of beauties and I attract and am attracted to a wide spectrum of them.
     
  4. Malik True

    Malik True New Member

    Hmmmm. I was into women in general at a very young age. I can remember just looking at women on my father's album covers for long stretches at a time....
     
  5. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    My only real exposure to men of any ethnicity but white was only on tv, but with the boys in my school I always ended up crushing on the ones with the best tan. My first "boyfriend" was a little grade school romance in 2nd grade with a guy who is naturally dark enough to look like he's hispanic or native american (Not sure which one is in his ancestry, probably the latter, though he doesn't have any of the prominent features of a native american).

    Last I checked, the boy was still gorgeous, too. haha.

    All my other crushes throughout school, when concerning boys I could see physically, were all on boys with dark hair and a nice, natural tan. At least a lovely olive skin tone. Never went for the pale guys until I met my ex husband.

    First black man I ever loved?

    Usher. I was 12 or so when I first saw him on mtv. My first thought wasn't "Oh what a hot black man"...it was "Oh holy jesus lookit the abs on that fine piece". I was told from the time I was born I should never date a black guy. My parents actually told me they'd either beat me or disown me or both if I brought a black guy home, yet it never seemed to stop me from getting all hot and bothered by a gorgeous hunk with a sexy R&B voice.

    It wasn't until a few years ago that I realized I had a strong preference for black guys, though I'll date someone of any race if we click. Even white boys, though most of the ones I've met here bore me. *L*
     
  6. ladeda

    ladeda New Member

    i was going to say "no effing way! i started dating white girls when i moved to a different area and went to a mostly white jr high school and then a mostly white high school"

    but then i thought further back....way back to my formative years and i remember the day i found.....a playboy mag, and this was in the '84 when i was about three. hmmmm
     
  7. TheChosenOne

    TheChosenOne Well-Known Member

    OMG....So I wasn't the only one watching Full House....I had a crush on D.J. and Stephanie but I didn't fully realize it at the time....one of the regular guest stars (Jurnee Smollett) probably ended up becoming the best looking of them all. (Just watch the movie 'Great Debaters'...and y'all will see what I mean!)



    But I think my biggest crushes in elementary school (besides girls at my school) were on Melissa Joan Hart & Caroline Rhea from "Sabrina the Teenage Witch"

    Melissa had that body and Caroline was packing up top....I couldn't help but watch.

    Melissa-

    http://www.drsnet.de/~david/pics/Desktopgirls/Melissa_Joan_Hart.jpg


    Caroline-

    http://64.211.46.141/rp/RheaCaroline1550240956.jpg
     
  8. Complex

    Complex New Member

    I found Women from all parts of the world attractive ever since I was 5 years old. :wink:

    The only difference between age 5 and, 23 are the requirements. As I get older, I've noticed there are certain criterias needed in order to keep me interested.

    Life was so much easier when it was only about looks.

    Cheers!
     
  9. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    I'm kinda the same way. I've always been into light-skinned girls but I never felt as if WW were off limits to me. I used to work at a major league ballpark and got to meet a lot of hot WW and worked with them on a daily basis.

    You could say that I was hooked from that point but my attraction to them back then is nowhere near what it is now. There were several white girls at the various schools I went to while I was growing up, although when I went to college I was exposed to the cream of the crop.
     
  10. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member


    I think i was about ten when flipped through the sears catalog and saw this fine white woman. She was so pretty that i snipped that pic, and kept it for future needs (lol)....then i began stealing playboy mags from corner stores......lol....and a year later i enrolled in an "all white" school.

    So basically I fell inlove with attractive white girls i think at the dawn of my teenage years.. There was this attractive girl at school, i mean this was the girl every guy (and their mama) wanted. I wont lie, she had the highest grades in school, played sports provincially, and was also the head girl...(head girl, is like the elected QUEEN of the student body)

    Head girls and head boys in south africa usually stood facing the entire school during school assemblies and what not, and sometimes prepared sermons ,speeches and what have you

    Anyways, on one spring day, this girl walked up to tell her speech in front pf the school. And thats when it hit me. I had never noticed how gorgeous she was untill then. Her hair-a shiny shade of gold was long and curled down her sides, and her eyes were so blue, i could notice them from where i was (about 130 feet away), and her lips? wow.....they were passionate and thick as a brick-red, kinda like Angelina Jolie...i know some of you might think im pulling details through my ass, but this girl was THE SHIT

    Anyways, i just kept staring at her.......and while telling her speech ,she paused for a second and looked around,, she looked around, and a split second away from looking back at her speech paper, she caught my eyes...........and for about 50 split seconds, she couldn't look away.....the eye contact was so intense that she looked away a split second away from 10 split seconds

    After telling her speech she gave the mic to the head master, and as she stood there she began looking at me AGAIN, and i was already looking at her.....i mean the eye contact was SO intense, i had an erection (lol). We looked at each other for another 15 minuts.

    This went on, and on, and on, and on, for about a month or so, until i pulled up my sleeves and asked her out.........She agreed.

    and there you have it.

    I think white women owe it to this girl man............wow, even before moving to Canada, she was still unbelievably the most gorgeous girl id ever seen. DAMN, good times

    anyway

    later
     
  11. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    When I was 7 and watching syndicated reruns of this...She's who one who started it all for me...


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    Then her...
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    Man oh man...I can go on, but I save more for later. 8)
     
  12. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    One word....

    DENZEL! :twisted:
     
  13. Newpowermoves

    Newpowermoves New Member

    I must say that you all were much more aware of yourselves as adolescents that I. During my formative years, I was completely oblivious to anything not dealing with "Ultraman", "Giant Robot", "Speed Racer", "Bugs Bunny", etc... :lol: :lol: :lol:
     
  14. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    Well, considering I was raised in a predominately white private school from preschool to 7th grade, it was only a matter of time.

    I've liked white girls since day one. Well, 5th grade that is.
     
  15. Soulthinker

    Soulthinker Well-Known Member

    Since I was 12 and liked Cathy Lee Crosby when I read she dated brothers according to Black Stars magazine. Later I was frustrated when reading of Micheal Jackson not going further with Tatum O'Neill back in 80.
     
  16. Complex

    Complex New Member

    :lol:

    I had a girlfriend (Robin) when I was 5 years old thanks to my older sister. 8) I think she basically teased us together. :lol: Although, who I really liked (Vanessa) I didn't have the courage to let her know. :(
     
  17. idear987

    idear987 New Member

    The exact same thing with me.
     
  18. cute

    cute New Member

    I was wondering about the this right before seeing this thread...

    I have always had more attraction to BM, I started with Michael Jackson. LOL
    Once the Michael barbie joined my collection Ken was layed to the side.
     
  19. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    You just gave my team of writers some new material.:smt042
     
  20. Chandarah

    Chandarah New Member

    I had my first crush for an Black Guy.
    He was in a swimming team of the americans, and they was practcing every day in the swimming place, so I was every day there and watched him.

    His name was Kevin.

    But it I did not speak english that time and I was totaly shy.
    My first BF was a Blond Jewisch Guy who I meet in this swimmingplace to.
    It took me arrounf ten years to be with my first black guy.
     

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