You can't put too much blame on these booted-over mama's boys.Ours is not a culture that invests in boys/men/manhood. The female is the heir in our Community. When you put money in a pepsi machine,you'd be crazy to expect a pizza. We invest in our daughters and expect performance from our sons. They can't even give our boys masculine names. Even a macho ass name like Leon isn't safe anymore....It's J'leon nowadays:smt043. Marcus is Marquise Mark is Marquette Don is Dontrelle Ron is Rontrelle. Danielle is an accepted name for a boy in the Black community. There was a study that showed children born in single-parent situations are better off with their mothers. It wasn't until they studied Black people did they observe a child is better off with his single FATHER.:smt081
i believe you are getting off topic here , this is a forum about black men and white women . white women don't name there kids desean ,deontay ,lasean . that's black women .
Eh not intimidated but there is a bit of 'is she into black guys' fear in the back of my mind and of course rejection in men's eyes is humiliation.
For sure, there's always going to be a question of whether or not "she is into black guys" but that's just the nature of dating interracially. Rejection is never fun (regardless of ethnicity) but wondering "What if?" is even worse in my opinion. I feel like timing & being "ready" in life is everything in finding the right person.
I think that each and every time I walk out of my door. Is today the day I experience any of the above for not signalling a lane change, having a broken tail or headlight or simply for being Black at the wrong time.
I've been so many women's first black experience I kind of expect they never dated a black guy before me. Ain't gonna lie so many ww are so friendly it's hard to pick up on the attraction signals.
Indeed. I have never felt that way when I traveled to any place out of the country. Not once. The place I feel the most unsafe has always been the U.S.
