Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

I agree and if it were a woman so would he lol

 

Yes, women are often guilty of this. Being that women are typically nurturers, some women stay in broken relationships with broken men trying to nurse them back to health. We've all heard the stories from guys who say "I wouldn't be the man I am today if it weren't for my lady/wife"

As to your backbone comment, nice guys CAN have an edge or be assertive which women like and likely one of the reasons you are in a relationship. Lol. I think the "nice guy" label often gets stuck on guys who are not assertive. A milquetoast, basically.

I seek the respectful gentleman who is intelligent, kind, compassionate, outgoing, etc. And I believe I bring some good qualities to the table. But even if he's got great qualities and I do too, that still may not mean we're compatible. BFE seems to suggest that we should date someone merely because they're nice. Doesn't matter if we have anything in common or if we like each other's personality or can hold a conversation or if we're attracted to them physically. Smh.

 

I have to agree with this...it's sad but true.

Black people being Matriarchal is our main hindrance.
It is impossible for a sisterhood to compete with brotherhoods like Asians..Caucasians...and Latinos ect ect.

We will always be on the wrong end of the bullwhip.

We are the only race that put our daughters before our sons.
We are the only race with more boys up for adoption than girls

People that put their sons first produce and make things.
People that put their daughters first don't make anything but noise.

Quiet as it's kept.

BM are the ONLY men BW don't submit too.

The same sister that will stomp around your house like Mike Tyson will suddenly become a Geisha girl in the home of a non-BM.

I've seen this too many times.

 

lol I think you are right about that.

 

The first line I agree with whole heartedly, the second part in bold is just nonsense imo. My wife thinks I'm the greatest man alive and treats me that way. If you are having a hard time finding quality women you may want to look at yourself as the reason rather than condemning all women.

 

True in both posts. Dude need to stop overindulging in porn and get into the game. Watching porn that much will do nothing but frustrate him cause he will have a sense of entitlement. Look at it real close. He referenced a dude that killed women in a spree cause that dude couldnt get laid. The dude (shooter) were making the same type statements bfe is making.

 

Go back and look at the posts. We have been giving him advice. Its up to him to take them. I can't make a man drink water

 

You are acting young.

You got two roads....

1. Take the advice people are trying to give you and grow. Success isn't easy.

2. Stick to what you are doing now and remain by yourself with just porn tapes.

Stop bitching is not a good look.

No one owes you nothing. Get over it.

Take our advice and grow.

Coming from a dude who allows women to call him nigger in bed....check yourself.

That's your boy....

 

Now dude is making threats which is clearly against forum policy.

 

Not to mention psychotic

 

negativity and speaking "the truth" does not solve anything . women are not going to change . men are no different .alot of men are assholes,cheaters and
violent (men are way more violent than women ).
you just have to learn to play the game . finding a life mate is not going to be
easy.that's why there is alot of trouble in relationships ,people jump into relationships quickly ,then find out they are not really that compatible.
get your must haves list (for a relationship), and stick to it .

 

I disagree. I sometimes wish I had the ability to turn back the hands of time because I think about what would life been like if I stuck with certain people. Nobody has one soul mate, way too many people in the world just for one.

 

i'm a nice guy by nature ,i will open doors for women ,run to the store to get her what she wants.yelling at a woman or bullying her is NOT my thing .
I'm proud of who i am and will not be fake to get a woman. alot of times a man will be fake (false presentation) the woman falls for it . after they find out the real him it's too late they are already in a relationship him .
right now i do have trouble finding a relationship because i'm financially unstable. it's sad but not having a car,money for outing's means no date.
that's my problem.

 

i never said soul mate ....... i said life mate . i don't believe in soul mates.

 

Did you report it?

 

Yep.

 

Same difference.

 

i would say big difference .
soul mate refers to "the one " and only person your meant to be with .
which i think is a myth.
life mate .... the one you ultimately settle down with or remain life long friends (intimate friends) compatible living mates.

just my opinion.

 

I disagree. I think a soul mate gives the idea that there is one and only one person you fit with. A life mate is simply the one you choose out of possibly many options to spend (hopefully) the rest of your life with.

 

that was so nice of you to explain that to him...he was feeling left out and trying to get in on the conversation...obviously doesn't know what he is talking about...