Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

YES!

 

Well yeah because if you're a decent guy who actually likes women its frustrating when everything your taught about being good to them doesn't work and even worst when you feel the need to be an "asshole" to get them.
A lot if not most men lack mentorship especially during critical points in their lives. We don't have the social support system women have at best we are ignored and worst ridiculed for not being an alpha who gets all the women. In reality most dudes just want options like women have options no one wants to feel shut out. And more so no one wants to feel like they have to bypass their authentic selves in favor of being a guy that's not natural to them to get women especially when its not working.
The best lesson people regardless of age or gender need to learn is some fucking patience (me included), things will develop attraction is natural you don't have to work so hard to get anyone you should only work hard on your own personal development.

 

Mofo are you a damn undertaker lol

 

Well the problem a lot of men have is setting boundaries. Women can only do what we allow. Not saying they aren't responsible for their shitty behavior but we can't facilitate it and then get mad when its repeated. If they insist on acting like children then treat them like children time out homie.

 

Sigh. I know that's why I starts that macking thread ... Let's get it going here.

Let's get the notes out and get to rolling.

Uhh wait....I started already.

Again, just look at it as it is .... The game. You lose some u win some. You just have to stay in the game to win.

 

I think a photo is needed if you are going to be talking

 

GL - I think a lot of people are put off by the term "game". You know as well as we do, there is a LOT of negative association with that word.

 

We really don't know where someone's anger or pain is coming from. Hopefully, people are honest with themselves and seek out help and support when times are dark.

 

Thank you, you see it too it's not just me lol

 

They call it game cause they compare it to sports a lot. You have heard the phrase "game of love" .

Just like in sports you win and you lose. You just need to learn how to play and don't quit.

You guys talk game all the time. Such as rules you will not break and chances you take.

Hell a great comparison would be in not quitting is hank aaron. He struck out far more times he hut homeruns but he didnt stop playing did he?

 

Stop the bs...you was talking about it was outdated.

Lol. Talking about kissing ass

 

How is that ass kissing? I've been saying that macking and game shit was outdated for years. This is just the first time I saw anyone actually say it first.

 

Cause your ass was not talking negative connotations. ..so don't jump on the train...just stay in your lane.

 

Oh I know what it means and get the whole idea. You can't deny that it causes a reaction though. Most people use it in a negative manner and often cringe when they hear it.

The thought is that it's fake, bullshit, not genuine.

Think about it - who want's to be played? playa

so....just like the manner in which one approaches can be very important, maybe you want to shift it out of being a "game"

just a thought,

 

Like I said before....it depends on how its used. U have to listen to it in context. I know what you are saying. You have to listen in context.

Example "he got game"



That can mean anything. It can refer to he is good in sports....ie the movie "he got game". Sportscasters/commentators use that phrase all the time.

If you are talking "trying to get over"/scam then yeah I feel you. "They trying to game you." Is getting over.

it's all in the contextcontext.

Playas and macks are interchangeable but for some there's a difference.

 

you may want to spell out to TDK he has no clue.

 

Of course I was I distinctly said it sounds like some bs pick up artist shit. Who's jumping on trains now lol

 

Negro please you didn't say that shit until tonight. Gtfoh.

Lol

You are with that burb shit. They go with trick and what not.

They saw when blacks had a name for dealing with women they started with the pua and bad boy shit. Thats some lame shit. appropriations

 

I disagree. It helps but I have talked to women who were dressed in sexy as shit like I like it (stilettos, stockings and tight dresses) and I had just come from the gym or looked horrid. I don't care what I have on, a woman's life can be so much more enhanced with me in it. I seriously believe that so fuck it. Now, I do get butterflies from time to time but I start to think about other shit that balances that shit. My favorite balance that I do is think "if I get with her, we are eventually going to sleep together and and eventually she is going to fall asleep after sex and eventually she is going to fart in her sleep. OK, she human and she farts. Go for it"

It works for me most times

 

No doubt. Act like a child and get treated like a child. At my age, I don't have the time for horseshit. Want to act like a child? Fuck out of hear and take your pussy with you. Act like an adult and let's do adult shit. Or not. Either way, no time for trick game bullshit.