So did I just become a Stereotype or a Cliche?

So, I joined this forum a while back because I stated dating black men after divorcing my white husband. I got in a relationship so I stopped coming here, we ended up breaking up and after a drunken hook up now I am not in a relationship and 5 months pregnant with a biracial baby.

So as the title says, am I a stereotype or a cliche?

 

Better question : Which one do you think you are & why?

 

I'm just doing some self depreciating humor here but, if I want to be really honest - probably both. At the end of the day I will love my child despite not being something I was planning for or expecting

 

Oh and why don't feel that way? Because it just seems like a story that gets told a million times. At least on the internet since I've been reading about this stuff. I know I'm not the first or the last to have this same story

 

Stick around even if you end up in another relationship. You can pick up some insight on some things, maybe even some from a few of the mom's of interracial kids that we have that float in from time to time. Just a thought.....

 

100% yes

I don't see myself getting in a relationship 5 months into a pregnancy or soon after though

 

Agreed. There are some members who have experienced a lot and can help someone who is newly facing some of these challenges avoid many of the pitfalls. Best of luck to you, JessBlondie. Hang in there. I think you will do fine.