Since you guys helped me out so much on my last thread....

I decided to post another one....it has to do with another at the job chick....this time I asked her if she was involved she said yes...but she proceeded to give me her phone number and we hang out from time to time....not one time has she mentioned her boyfriend....I am like damn did this chick forgot about him...and no I am not looking from any advice from y'all bc I know how y'all roll...you guys will make me out to be a kidnapper rapist and all kind of shyt...just want to know what y'all think about that...maybe she is sizing me up for later or something?? Maybe she just want to be friends

 

Just sounds like its not worth you time, really. If she is "forgetting" her bf, is this someone you want to associate yourself with. If you just want a hook up, go ahead, but don't expect it to go any further, she sounds flaky. I mean, friends, really?

 

He knows the answer to his question he's just looking for permission to do what he already wants to do:rock:

 

I decided to have little or no time for flaky females who play games when i hit the age of 35. This lady is not serious.

 

sounds to me like she's, at most, a hit it & quit it kinda female - I could be wrong, but time has a way of revealing all

 

All I can tell you bro is just do you.

If you like her and she acknowledges you, see where it goes and be prepared for whatever may come.

It could be she's in a rocky relationship that is on the brink and she needs a friend or it could be someone you wind up with for the rest of your life or it could be nothing.

All part of the mystery of life and love.

 

Sounds like she is trying to be your friend for now and yet keep her options open. Good luck.

 

You just better hope her BF isn't crazy. Make sure you do your homework on her. You don't want to get caught up in no sh*t. But anyway, good luck.

 

She may just want to be friends or want something on the side... See women typically don't outright cheat, they need a excuse like "I was in a vulnerable state, had an couple drinks and it just happened" so they don't feel like a complete cum recepitcle.

Never bring her to your place, don't involve your emotions, and have fun.

"It's not your pussy, it's just your turn" ???

 

^ This.

If she's hanging out with you from time to time, being all flirty or whatever... then it says a lot about who she is. If she's being flirty towards you now with a boyfriend and later breaks up with him (and maybe goes with you), how do you know it wouldn't be the same thing again?

If she's not being as flirty or whatever... then maybe she's genuinely looking for friendship. The fact she doesn't mention her boyfriend though, makes me go "hmmm..."

 

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm indeed

 

Well said.:smt023

 

Maybe we're all jumping to conclusions too quickly... Her "involvement" doesn't necessarily mean she has a man in her life, unless she specifically said so... Her "involvement" could be a child or other family commitment. If it matters at all to you, you should ask her to clarify her status.

 

sounds like she is keeping her options open...at least she was honest and said "yes" to already being involved...some who are involved say "no" and hope to fool both people...she is only trying to fool the person she is involved with...here is the thing you missed a golden opportunity to ask what you know you wanted to ask right when she gave you her number...she hands you the number and you automatically should ask if you are involved...what does hanging out mean to you? perhaps she enjoys stringing men along just incase something doesn't workout then she has a backup plan...as mentioned before...even if you do ever get the main spot...who becomes her next backup plan?

 

LOL, funny but very true heads up.

Never know what you are getting involved in when someone is "in a relationship" and hasn't severed it.

 

This.

 

Exactly.:smt045

 

It's what many people on the forum do!!!!!:smt081


any how! I agree with FG. Don't waste your time with chick that are taken. The more time you use on this chick the less time you have to find your own chick.


Some women are clueless. They don't realize that the guy asking for a number wants to be more than friends.
Other women are just mean. They string along a guy knowing that it will never be or just to feel good about themselves. Avoid these types of women. Find one that is not involved. One that is free of boyfriends, children(unless you got them or don't mind taking care of someone else's kid) or whatever that "involved" means.

advice straight to OP. <---There is a reason why I added that part.