Should You Ever Take Womens Advice On How To Get Women ?

So we can safely assume by your comment, that you agree a man should take advice from a woman on how to get a woman.

 

Hey - sometimes the truth ain't pretty. What can I say?

 

Dude, I am in discussions with folks on FB all.the.time who have differing opinions. We can discuss something and still be respectful. TDK has no filter and little respect He flip flops his views to suit the audience, at times. He asks answers to questions that have been answered many times before by more than one person because he doesn't like the answers. You will never see what some of us see because you look through the same lens he does.

 

First off show me a single thread on this forum that's not repetitive on some level.
Secondly if I paid you 50 dollars you couldn't find a topic where I flip flop. Have a changed my mind on certain things of course I have its called growth you should try it.
A lot of you carry grudges like teenage girls who were stood up for prom. You literally can not stand that I don't agree with you on certain topics and challenge a lot of your ridiculous notions about love and relationships. Why do you allow a dickhead to have so much power.

 

And this is exactly why we don't get along. Because you basically reduced a woman to nothing but a vagina and then say "What's wrong with that?" and call me sensitive. That tells me all I need to know about the way you view women and what worth they hold for you. And this is not new - it permeates so many posts you make here. So again, as Bookie asked, why are you here, TDK?

 

In terms of dating that's exactly what you are until I know you better. Just like a man is wallet until a woman knows him better which is why women like yourself are insulted at the idea of being taken to McDonalds. I can't value you as more until I actually know you as more. Too many women expect girlfriend treatment without putting in girlfriend time because you lead with your vagina. I'm on here because I enjoy your sparkling personality Ches lol
How about I choose to be pure and simple.

 

now if u can get a real woman

 

I don't view men merely as wallets (or penises.)
That's your assumption about women. McDonald's as a first date is for teenagers. If you're in your 50's and can't get any more creative than a fast food joint with unhealthy food for a first date, you're not for me. But your post, again, tells me much about the person you are. Smh.

 

In my experience, unless the woman is a really cool friend who can remove herself from projecting her personal issues from the equation, then no.

Normally, I feel that getting advice from a woman on the relationship that you are currently in is ok, and sometimes a good way to get a viewpoint. But, getting advice to actually get a woman is often a bad idea. I say that based only on experience. I have noticed that some will project their issues with their man's shortcomings on you by telling you "all the things I wish he would do and or work on" vs. what you actually need to do to get and maintain a woman's attention in the first stages of courting. So, I feel that getting a woman's perspective once you are past the courting stage can be a really good thing. But, unless the woman is a really cool friend who isn't going to bullshit you by either projecting her personal relationship issues, or by giving you the after school special response, you are much better asking another man about it.

Also, I have noticed that some women friends are less likely to bad mouth another woman even if she is pulling some B.S. so you have to ask a guy friend. I understand the reasoning for it due to societal issues, but it doesn't really help you as a friend.

So, to recap... If you are in the early courting stage and the friend is unable to remove her own bias from the advice (IE. issues she is having with her man, or the after school special advice that is based in how she wishes a man would treat her), don't take her advice. Get a brotha's advice instead.

If She is cool and won't B.S. you (we have all had a friend or two like this) listen, and listen well.

Also, if you are far beyond the courting stage, and are in the long term stage, feel free to get a woman's perspective, it may help you if you are lacking in intuition and so on.

 

If you view strangers as more you're simply lying. What do you know about them to see more?
And you wouldn't do McDonald's but pizza with all that carbs and dairy is perfectly healthy. Makes sense lol

 

How could I possibly view him as a wallet then, either?? I look at men as people with brains, hearts, personalities, spirits and character. Do I really need to explain that? Apparently, I do.

A nice pizza place still beats fried fast food.

 

Exactly! This is what it comes down to, I think. Not every woman will give unbiased advice, but some can and will which could help you in the long run.

 

TDK Hatfield vs Ches McCoy...you two are like the friggin Montagues and Capulets, lol

 

Off the top of my head I have had 5 (maybe 6) friends who were like this. 4 were lesbians.

 

You dictate who is an is not a man based upon whether he answers your question?

LOL

 

Now, if a woman is out for stupid shit, yeah maybe. Most men know how to categorize women. Some are there for the deposit some, for a long relationship; some start out for the deposit and it turns into a long term relationship. and vise-versa. Shit happens and if both parties are cool, cool.

You gotta know who you are dealing with; treat a hoe like a "good" woman and she will be pissed with a brother. Treat a "good" woman like a hoe and she too will be pissed with a brother. Some women like to be reduced to "nothing but a vagina". Shouldn't they get what they want, too?

Also, do you feel the same way about women that reduce themselves to nothing but vaginas? Do you have as much animosity to them?

 

Well damn! LOL

 

I've met at least one person from this site...that you know of lol

Doesn't she count as a "real woman"?

 

That is some wisdom there. I think you hit the nail on the head with that post.

 

If that's their usual MO, actually I do. They have no self-respect or standards. If their behavior is due to low self-esteem, then I feel sorry for them.