Should You Ever Take Womens Advice On How To Get Women ?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by 4north1side2, Dec 12, 2015.

  1. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    I agree with this. Personally if I want to know how to attract women I would ask, in this order: 1) a close female friend, preferably a woman like the one that I like, 2) a guy who seems successful with the kind of woman that I would like to be successful with. When it comes to how to attract women (and keep them) I'm more likely to take advice from a woman because they know and experience things that no man ever will.
     
  2. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    And that makes sense. I also think it depends on what you seek from a woman. If you're just looking for sex, it's not hard to develop enough game to get that, so yeah, a guy who is successful at getting laid can teach you how to get in a woman's pants. But if you're looking for a quality relationship, I'd say ask a woman you trust for advice. I honest don't see how that doesn't make sense to some. We aren't deer that are being hunted.
     
  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Here's the thing and boba alluded to this I think a woman can give you advice on her. She can give you a road map based her past experiences but how to get any other woman is a totally mystery since she never had to do it.
    I know what a good massage feels like to me but does this make me qualified to give them?
     
  4. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    True, but women as a whole have more in common with other women than they do with men. A woman who can tell you what she's looking for specifically can tell you way more about what other women are looking for than a man can. Women talk among themselves and a lot of what they say, they'd never say to/in front of men, and vice versa (which is why it's best to go to a friend). Women and men are generally looking for different things in relationships and while some men think we know what women are looking for, women actually do know what they're looking for. I may think that I know what women want but until I've actually dated men myself as a woman, all I can do is guess.

    The best advice I ever got on how to attract women was from another woman. Think of it this way: if you have symptoms of an illness and you think that you might be coming down with the flu or something more serious are you going to ask someone with the same symptoms you have, or are you going to to a doctor instead? You and the other person can spend hours talking about what might be going on, or you can go straight to the source and get an answer, since that source knows exactly what to look for.
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Well that's the thing culturally we don't allow women to be honest so the things women tell each other isn't always the truth anyway.
    How many women are gonna tell their girlfriends they like being tied up and videotaped. Yes an extreme example but my point is I do consider the source and I notice women are far more honest about their desires with men since the same catty judgement doesn't exist with us as it would with other women. Why do you think you heat women often say they don't like other women they prefer to chill with men.
    Also I look at it more like hunting than an ailment. A deer can't tell a hunter how to catch other deer since it doesn't spend it's time trying to catch deer. It can only tell you how it got caught. Other hunters can tell you because that's what they spend their time doing. Feel me?
     
  6. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    True, but a deer can tell you where all the other deer are, what they eat, what they drink, what their habits are, etc. and from an insider's perspective. Remember that movie What Women Want that came about years back? Mel Gibson got the power to read people's minds. When it came time to focus on getting women, who's minds did he spend more time reading: men or women?

    Put another way, you can talk to all the hunters that you want to and that's fine; they can tell you how they catch their specific deer. But if you talk to the deer then you'll have enough knowledge to bag every doe in the forest before the other hunters even get their boots on. It's the difference between knowing what to expect based on past experience at best (men) versus knowing what's someone is going to do (or is likely to do) based on them telling you specifically. First hand knowledge is always the best source.
     
  7. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    In that case, feel free to replace the deer in my example with...aw hell, I don't know...ninjas or something. Everyone loves ninjas!
     
  8. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Oh, I wasn't bashing YOUR use of deer. Should've clarified.
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I don't need other deer to tell me that because I can see with my own two eyes what they do but only experience tells me how and which way they'll run they hear a sound in the distance
    And again moving from the analogy women in general are far more self centered and only pay attention to what they like. They pay very little attention on what works for others.
    Actually do you have a YouTube example of a woman giving good advice about women. Now I'm curious and want to test this.
     
  10. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Nah, I don't need Youtube to reinforce what works in real life. :cool:
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    This negro right here lol
    Well I don't see it working in real life so I need an example.
    Like a wise man said if women didn't have vaginas what developed skill set do they have to get men?
     
  12. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    That was your imaginary friend that said that. And you really have to ask why we believe you don't like women???

    You know, if this is the real you that we see here, you're sorry. But if what a couple folks say is true, that you're actually really sweet, you're even sorrier, because you spend so much of your life being an online dickhead.
     
  13. BrianJ

    BrianJ New Member

    Some women out there do indeed have a skill set that goes beyond their vaginas. They are unfortunately far and few in between. Most unfortunately believe their skills lay within their vaginas.
     
  14. BrianJ

    BrianJ New Member

    What makes him a dickhead? Because you don't agree with his position of a few things? That means he's a dickhead?
     
  15. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    WOW just WOW...not sure what rock you crawled out from under but you are over the top loon tune...unbelievable
     
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    lol

    hes tdk's sycophant
     
  17. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    do you mean psychopath? lol
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    And this is why I call you a sensitive victim type. How is what I said insulting?
    Women don't have to go out and get men, men come to you. Is that not a fact of life?
     
  19. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    You're calling someone else looney lipster? Hilarious. So I take it you and Ches will be taking that comedy tour on the road.
     
  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    And you're what? My number one stalker?
    This gal I swear lol
     

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