1. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Ahahahahahaha for some reason this made me laugh, the image of it. omg hilarious. You have to be a strong and thick skinned woman to work there Tam, I am impressed!
     
  2. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Most women prefer to have a say so in whether or not they see what a man's working with. :)

    Thanks, Athena. IMO, I was a good correctional officer. The hardest part wasn't dealing with the inmates; it was dealing with the prison politics. Dealing with the chicken-chokers (which is what I called the inmates who jerked off in front of female officers or who'd put their dicks on display) was irritating as hell. When I first became an officer, it used to piss me off when they'd do that shit, & I'd threaten things like, 'I'm gonna break that thing off & kick it around on the ground' & I recall telling one guy who was acting like he was about to put on a show, 'If I get even a glimpse of that piece of shit, I'll break it off & you'll eat the motherfucker', LOL.

    As I became a more seasoned officer, I'd use other tactics...I'd point & laugh, say things like, 'aww...what a cute LITTLE thing', etc...humiliation always worked best & I was pretty creative with thinking of ways to embarrass 'em. It's kinda funny because after a while, you seldom even notice anymore. Believe it or not, depending on how you carry yourself, most of the inmates will show you respect. You have to be a balanced person to be an effective CO. If I hadn't moved away for a couple of years, I'd probably still be working there. The politics make it not the easiest environment, but now that I'm older I'd probably have fewer problems if I ever decided to go back to that. The first time around I was 22, female & had a mixed kid...those things made me a target for the assholes I worked for/with...small town people tend to suck.
     
  3. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Amazing Tam, I am even more impressed! I tried to rep you but apparently have to spread the love a bit first.

    What an environment that must have been. I've been exposed to it very very briefly from the police side (married to an officer, got to watch the cams in the holding cells - hilarious stuff that was, etc). But to be in that environment everyday wow, that's pretty amazing. Good job!
     
  4. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thank you, Athena; I appreciate the thought anyway.

    It was a trip sometimes due to the power-tripping fools working there, but there was actually a lot I liked about working in corrections. Sometimes I even miss it. I see people I used to work for/with all the time where I work now as customers. It's funny, some of the assholes who used to give me such a hard time actually ask me from time to time if I'll come back to work out there after all the effort they put into trying to run me off. Who knows, maybe I'll work corrections again some day.
     
  5. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    I 'sextext' with my man, but can't send pictures even if I wanted to. His phone provider doesn't allow it. If I could send pictures, I would. I trust him with photos and video. :)
     
  6. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Sexual texting I am fine with, like others have said it helps keep it interesting. I find it exciting to get a sex text when I am at work at my desk etc.

    I have only ever sent the one person nekkid pics but I trust him with my entire being...I tend to be careful about cropping my head off though ;-) Unfortunately I agree with you YMRA, if you cheese a partner or expartner off it is possible you may catch your pics loaded onto the net....
     
  7. Nico

    Nico Banned

    I have no sexting game, someone teach me.
     
  8. Kaname2000

    Kaname2000 New Member


    I would never do that every chick that has ever sent me a pic is saved on my external drive and a folder in e-mail, should something happen to that because I treasure every kitty pic I have ever gotten and I don't show em to nobody else either that would feel to awkward for me and I don't like to share but its just fun to look at though from time to time and stroll down memory lane and remember the good ole days!!!
     

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