Self Confidence & Presentation

Self Confidence & Presentation:

I am a professional Black Man in LA.

At first I was scared to go to a mostly white club because I feared that the white chics their exclusively liked White Guys. And certain Black Men that I know around the LA social scene also informed me of this fact.
However, this “fact� is just another assumption and a false barrier.

I always wanted to view and date White Women that preferred White Culture because I don’t like White Women that mostly congregate with Blacks or Black Women. To much of that foul and ignorant attitude rubs off on these White Women, who most likely have issues of their own. And of course the aforementioned statement is a generalization.

On New Year’s Eve, 2005, I went with my friend (Yes a White Guy, actually part Spanish) to a White Rock Club in LA. Women find my friend attractive, he is one of those dark type of White Guys. Let’s call me friend “T�. I do like some Rock music and if there is a good drummer or guitarist I can actually enjoy some parts of the music.

Nonetheless, we met some of T’s Asian and White Male friends at the club. T’s friends were nice and they were there with some White Chics. We were all hanging around their table, talking and having drinks.
I always dress up because no matter what:
“Chics like suits!� When chics see a nice suit they think money and get happy.

I invited another Black Dude that is Light-skinned and he is a professional as well as I am. I am Brown and both of us had bald fades.

We were clearly Black Men, no Michael Jackson alterations.

So there we were, a large crowd at the Back of a small LA Club making noise on New Years Eve.

And at this point my White friend and I started to walk around and to my amazement, we successfully:
Flirted, intermingled, danced, made out and drank with some hot to mediocre White chics, in a nearly all White Club in LA, on New Year’s Eve.


T and I dominated that night and we both had a great time.
Granted the music was not Wu-Tang or Biggie in the mid-nineties but who is that good these days?
Most Rap, I cannot stand at this point, except Kanye West at times.

And yes, some White Guys were tripping, but so what?
We were pulling chics left and right and everyone noticed us.
White guys were putting their hands on their chics’ ass to claim them, as if that’s going to help.
In the end it is up to the Chic.

The simple fact is if you are the man, Black or White.
You are the Man, period.
And Black Guys are super nova hot at this point.
The above statements were not always true but more and more, they are true.

Simply stated:
Some White Women at White clubs don’t necessarily dislike Black Men they just like their culture.
Of course if you enter a foreign situation with a ghetto, greasy and/or ignorant attitude and presentation, most likely you are going to get an unfavorable reply.
On the other hand, if you can make yourself Universally Accepted there is no need to wait for White Women to come to you. You can go to them just remember the old Axiom:
“When in Rome do as the Romans�

If you only check out the White Chics that are open enough to leave their immediate surroundings you are only exposing yourself to a certain percentage of eligible White Women. And remember, who is to same you are not the Black Guy that opens a hot White Chics eyes. Have some self-confidence man!! All the best.

DD

 

If your going to post this twice then delete the one you dont want.....

:?

 

How do I delete the one in Stereotypes and Myths?
And are you the webmaster?
Or just bossy?

 

I'm no webmaster here. But forums users dont want to see double post and especially double thread, why would they? I'm sure you can understand this

 

dirtydaddy??what country are you from?? LA is in California, the most progressive state in the US. What year do you think it is? you sound as if you just escaped from the plantation in the 1860s to discover LA.

black men have been going to all white clubs in the US, for many many years now. where do you work as a professional that you wouldnt know this?

i am suspicious of a person in the second largest city in the US that didnt know that in big cities most clubs are opened to blacks--its not JIM CROW whites only any more dude