My father once told me that back in his time there were many secret clandestine affairs between black men and white women. In that time a white woman would not be caught in the presence of a black male or risk being scorned, mistreated or killed in some cases, especially if it was found out that she had a sexual affair with a black man. It amazes my father who is now 72 on how open and aggressive white females are today in their choice of dating and marrying black men and men of other races. At first he was against my own marriage. He seems to feel that white women know that they have been treated as property and that their own fathers, brothers and relatives had some exotic woman on the side. So the double standard does not play anymore. Even today there is still secret affairs by a great many white females for non-white men. I have a uncle who is divorced with a white female who is in love with him. They have been seeing each other for almost a year. Their relationship is a very quiet and private one. She has no children, but she has a husband who she wants to divorce. He does not know of her relationship yet. She spoils the hell out of my uncle simply because he treats her like a lady.