Seaworld or California Adventure?

Hi - It is my Birthday tomorrow (yay) and my man said he'd take me to california adventure (already been to regular disneyland) or seaworld. I can't decide which one... I love the idea of california adventure but I am not big on scary rides, and we live in SD so seaworld seems to make more sense right now, unless anyone can give me some rave reviews to justify a visit to Anaheim instead? It just sounds so much more fun than seaworld - hopefully some people here have been to both and can help me out here... Thanks =)

 

To throw more options in - we could do Six Flags or Knotts Berry Farm also???