Seal and Heidi Klum

I don't think you are following.

Someone falls out of love. Or one spouse degrades or talks mean. Or someone has a job where they travel too much or takes too much of their time and energy. Or they ignore their spouse. Or they have different goals. Or one likes to stay in the other likes to go out.......couples drift apart.

THEN the cheating starts after those things when they don't get the attention or love. Cheating is not the cause it's a symptom of another problem earlier.

 

I'm responding to keeping things out of the media. I wasn't referring to the situation or when and how cheating starts.

I'll reiterate...it's hard to do when the paparazzi's on your ass 24/7.

 

No not hard bbw. Just say no comment. Now she will probably respond to defend herself and it will get ugly.

I thought you were saying the cheating was caught by paps.

Rumor mill says he cheated......who knows what went on in their marriage. There was a blind item about her a while back that said she was really a distant mom. So do we know what caused one or both of them to step out? Any which way the kids will suffer because.

 

Heidi fucked the bodyguard!???lol:smt103

 

No comment? Look at Tiger and Elin and how all that went.

The only saving grace for Heidi and Seal is that their star relevancy has faded and no longer "hot" by entertainment standards.

 

You have to love bs rationalizations on here. A man cheats he's a selfish piece of shit who had no respect for his wife or kids. A woman cheats there was something wrong in the relationship that caused her to cheat. No responsibility for anything huh ladies lol

 

lol
Exactly.
Ladies get a free pass and are able to make excuses.
"He didnt pay attention to me"
"He didnt satisfy me"
"He wasn't there for me"

etc etc

 

:smt038

 

I wonder how long the victim game will go on.

 

It seems Seal is bitter, sort of. If he says he cares about the emotional stability of his kids then he would have been more discreet than going public with the idea that the mother of his kids is a cheat (assuming the allegation is true). Any marriage with kids that breaks up because of "issues" ought to be treated with discretion and some consideration for the kids.

 

Exactly.

Now she will have to respond and the battle will be on in public. "Her people" are already putting things out there in response. Those things will be out there forever and their kids will get to read them one day.

For seven months all was quiet even as he was the first to be in public with other people. The minute she is seen in pics with affectionate things with others he goes off and blasts her when he said we are going to be cool here.

 

Wait so what do you consider the actions of Kobe and Tiger's wives?

 

On the Oprah show where she was interviewed, she was very categorical in saying that Seal was in his underwear and his dick never seemed to end and that was what attracted her to him. Marriage doesnt last on good dick or perfect tits and ass alone.

 

Eternally. Women are wired for it, and you're not going to find many exceptions to that rule.

 

Many women like to deflect the blame for a situation off of them. Hate to say it. It bothers me that women in the past fought for equal rights, yet women these days want to be treated different and special for being a woman. Deflecting responsibility for actions is one of these issues I have with some modern women.

I think women cheat for more emotional reasons. I do understand that though. Still does not excuse the actions.

I seriously hope Seal didn't cheat. He doesn't seem like the type. Then again, I could be wrong.

 

I remember this interview and I guess you could say he was almost in underwear,,,, they were actually bike pants as he had been cycling as a workout and I was certainly shocked to hear her tell Oprah on national tv that it was his manhood that caught her eye in that hotel loby.... Personallly, I would have thought that would be something she would have kept to herself.

 

Come on you know you white women can't like us bm unless we have big "brains" that make your jaw drop lol

 

Manhood, yes his man assets

There is nothing bad in appreciating your man's endowments, yet it makes sense not to put it out there for the whole world. It was bad press, in my opinion. I remember the interview like yesterday, and I remember feeling diminished for him just for the idea that it was his dick that was hung like a camel, and not his willingness to show some interest in spite of being abandoned pregnant by a spoilt and famous man, and the willingness of Seal to see beyond the challenges that laid ahead.

It appears she is most vulnerable when going through break-ups. She jumped into a relationship with Seal while pregnant, and now with a large brood to take care of, she is in another relationship without holding out enough to sort through paperwork. I am hoping this guy likes her for her, and not for the money she has, and not a potential future windfall that could happen.

 

Like the old sayin'.....

If is not the nanny, it is the body guard.

 

yeah, I think I saw that clip as well... Seal isn't exactly Denzel. Heid carried his seeds to next generation, that says to me eventho the initial attraction was his mandigo, she must have cared and loved the guy to give him 3 kids...