Random Conversation 2.0

I still have no idea why you think I am lying. You have serious problems if you will make snap judgments such as that I am violent or "could cause serious harm to myself or others"...I have never indicated such tendencies. You are projecting your life experience onto me, which is only natural, but you are WRONG about me, and if you had any decency you would apologize for

1. calling me a liar

2. insinuating that I am violent

Completely inappropriate and tantamount to a personal attack. Read the rule book, Moderator.

 

She insults people and then demands an apology?

 

lmao

this mothafucka at work was gaggin to kat williams

i gotta hit up netflix for their standup

 

Shes a crazy end of story. Only a person who has lost touch with reality behaves the way she does

 

I never insinuated that you are violent.

 

:smt120

 

That part I totally relate to and sympathize. You have no idea how annoying it is. Every time I leave walk out the front door, there is some leggy blonde in a ponytail and jeans trying to blow me. I cannot get on the bus without some sharp featured ridiculously attractive vegan hipster slapping me on the ass and making a comment like "I don't eat meat, but when I do, I prefer your 3" sausage link. When I try to get in the hot tub at the gym, the yoga classes and spinning classes immediately end early as all the hot women suddenly leave class to strip join me in the hot tub. To make it worse they all fondle me underwater.

It's so tedious being super hot. It's SOOOooOOooOOooooOOO ANNOYING.... ugh.

 

How do you deal man, how do you deal? I can only imagine the pain through which you go each day. My sympathies.:smt056

 

Perhaps by hurting ones self or others jaisee was referencing a little known phenomena where by people who have an ego problem will eventually get top heavy and simply fall over.

This is the result of a head that has gotten far to large for the body to accommodate comfortably. It can be dangerous (and annoying!) and is best detected in its early stages.

They have specialized doctors who treat this kind of condition. They are called shrinks. For a reason...

If that fails the shrink can refer you out to an cranial-anal inversion extractor physician.

Good luck!

 

I said the guy that hit on me was on a bike. Not all of the men that hit on me are winners. Whistles and cat calls and inappropriate compliments don't come from gentlemen. The men I am dating I have met in a much more respectful way, and measure up to my standards - it's the process of sifting the wheat from the chaff.

And it's not "tedious" perse to be attractive to black men - it can be fun - just sometimes I don't feel like dealing with the advances of horny street thugs. Anyway - you should know what it's like to be hit on by people you find unattractive, being a good-looking man yourself.

 

No, let's not kid ourselves - he jumped to a massive conclusion and is too full of his own ego to apologize. That's what it seems like to me.

Anyway, I've never seen a man that could "pull" just about any lady he wanted who had a poor self-image, or wasn't just a little cocky. Why should it be any different for me? I realize that at this point in my life I have a lot of power, and it feels good, so yes, I do feel pretty good about myself. I have self-esteem issues like everyone else, though.

This is starting to sound like "slut-shaming" and jealousy. Trying to get a woman back into the subservient position where she "belongs". SMDH. The only place I am subservient is in the bedroom. At times. Although I am learning to be able to orgasm on top lol...

 

I get asked for my number when I'm heading back from the gym.... sweaty, gross and in sweats. Sitting outside my apartment building in DC, many guys would wave as they walk by...
I don't fuck them all (well, I don't fuck any of them lol), and there's no Monday guy, a Tuesday guy, a Wednesday guy and so on.

The forum isn't given these kind of updates when it happens, "OMG this super sexy guy was hitting on me!" every time it happens, nor would it be mentioned if I'm boning someone new. There's things to share and things not to share.

I do give you props though, for being a chick and being this upfront about what you do sexually. If a guy does it, he's da man... if a girl does it, she's a slut. Just... updates aren't needed.

Being hit on "all the time" can be flattering, but if it get's annoying... ignore them, it's that simple.

 

I jumped to no conclusion. 75% of your posts are about your sexual exploits and the smorgasbord Black-Adonisesses who grace your bed and the seemingly unlimited number of orgasms that you're capable of achieving.

Quite frankly, I applaud women who are not afraid to explore their sexuality. However, when you come here and post after post after post is the same ol, same ol, it becomes apparent that you're vocalizing your fantasies. As Nicole said, there are things to share and things not to share.

Rich people don't have to flaunt their riches to the world.
Beautiful people don't have to remind the world that they're beautiful.
Smart people don't have to convince the world of their intelligence.

It's usually those without who feel the need to convince not only others, but also themselves that they are in possession of these things.

"For pathological liars, lying provides a boost to their often low self-esteem. They brag about outlandish, grand schemes that are not likely to materialize."

 

I understand what you're saying, nicole, but what I choose to post is my business... it's the part that people think that I couldn't possibly be telling the truth that annoys me. Like it's impossible for a woman to have the kind of life that I do, getting sexy guys, and having hot sex several times a week. It's not just sex either - today I'm going to the park with someone I've been seeing - went with him last Sunday too.

Guys don't just come over for sex - we hang out and talk/laugh for hours. I am not some monster - I have a real life personality - people seem to forget that. Also, when I'm with a guy I like, I am very sweet and compliant normally...they like me because I have a strong personality with strong opinions, and a gentle side too. You all don't get to see that side of me as much, so you vilify me, and it's not really fair. Lots of girls do what I do.

 

How many times do I have to tell you that I am not lying? Your insistence on this notion is delusional in itself. You are also trying to convince me that I am not worthy or attractive, not deserving of what is happening to me (seeing several attractive men at once). Why would you want to try to tear a person down like that?

 

Wrong. It's 2000x easier for a woman to get sexy guys and have them over for hot sex several times a week. Remember, guys will stick their dick in a warm apple pie.

You are free to post whatever you want. Nobody can stop you from posting that crap. Unfortunately you don't seem to realize that all we have to go by as far as knowing who you are is by what you post here. If every post is about your 4 or 5 soapy fantasy dreamboats we will certainly think you are 1 dimensional.

 

Let's not kid yourselves, ok?

It's hard to jump to massive conclusions about someone when they so shamelessly put their whole sex life in posts on the Internet.

Conclusion jumping notwithstanding it either makes you way to easy or you need help.

Sex doesn't just belong in the bedroom but there aspects of it that should stay there.

Personally, it pisses me off if I sleep with a guy and then he goes and blabs about. I won't ever sleep with him again. I don't like to feel like I'm some conquest.

You may have high standards and only sleep with gentlemen, but your skills in being lady like are severely lacking. The fact that you give regular updates and say things like "you don't know what it's like I get hit on all the time" is very suspect not only about you but also these men you sleep with. If I was your partner (if I liked loud mouthed, full of themselves, haimakamaka women) and I found posts like yours on the Internet I would drop you flat with out even thinking about it.

You may have standards but from what you relate about the men you screw it seems they dont.

 

OH that's right - I must be EXACTLY the way I represent myself in this forum in real life. Also, this forum is relatively anonymous - I never ever blab about my life on FB, and only talk about my love life to highly trusted close friends.

If there's something I am not, it's loud-mouthed. I am actually very soft-spoken.