You think what you want about the skin thing but it's something cultural amongst blacks. It's really hard to have an issue with someone's skin tone when you more than likely have a family member with that very skin tone. Right now the big joke in the NBA finals is team darkie (Cleveland ) vs team light skin (Golden State ). None of that stuff has anything to do with self hate. I know I'm just probably pissing in the wind but there's a little cultural education. I date people intelligent enough not to ever misunderstand just like I don't ever use the same foul language during polite conversation. I know you guys have your thinking set in stone and won't be swayed but like I keep saying no one is asking you to do it so why concern yourself?
i love how when things aren't going so well for you here that what you have said all of a sudden becomes a culture thing...it's just what blacks do...you expect everyone to tow the line when it comes to understanding the plight of black people yet you stall advancement by asking a ww to call you the n word during sex and fuel the light skin versus dark skin battle...
Lippy do me a favor and just ask anyone that's not me literally take two seconds and just ask. And if allow a female. .. never mind carry on.
K just brought it up to you yesterday...clearly i am not the only person that can see you have serious issues with the color of your skin i am also not the only person that raises an eyebrow to the use of the n word...your papi strategy was laughable
So basically You and Knica think that yet not a single black person not even your loyalist GL pointed that out. Simply saying dark skin means insecurity now huh lol.
i'm not speaking for K and i didn't chime in when she pointed it out to you...but i did read it in another thread now you are mincing words like you famously do on this site to try to wiggle your way out of crap...i did not say dark skin means insecurity...i said that YOU are insecure with how dark you are and it is evident in how you approach the lighter skinned men here and over compensate the "joke" as a cultural thing
Because it is. They constantly make fun of my suburban upbringing is that because they're self conscious about how they grew up? They make fun of New York all the time Petty makes a Yonkers joke all the time does it mean they hate those places as well? Your logic ain't tracking. That's what men do we crack on each other.
I just noticed that you said this and used the same word i used that caught the forum on fire... you just reduced the n word to papi in this thread...yet set my ass on fire for calling you what you just called cleveland the rules are just too difficult with you... you can say this word but not that word...only certain people can use that word...at noon on friday that word can be used...in the bedroom this word can be used... WTF...i give up!
No no no. Clearly she has the educational background, as a make up salesperson, to diagnose your insecurities. She knows you better than you do. Stop denying the truth youngin lol.
Because you definitely meant that shit as an insult. If I call Raider my ride or die bitch, yeah I used the word bitch. Is it the same exact thing if I call someone I don't like bitch. Do you really need it broken down and spelled out for you like that? Damn
Yeah..He was the first to throw the team 'darkie/light-skin' comment in the NBA finals thread. Go figure.
i'm not diagnosing anything...i don't claim to be any type of medical professional...just an observation...glad you decided to chime in with your paper pushing knowledge i am also not the only person that mentioned it...