Question: BM always ask have you ever dated a BM

lol...it's alright i knew what you meant.

 

2 reasons, one, because the history of lynching and that we are cautious of the weirdos out there and two because there are alot of white women just out to experiment with the black thing because they think its a fad

 

every single black guy i met asked me if i already dated black guys. i guess it's a way to be sure i'm not gonna turn racist after 5 minutes, lol

 

Some would be Thick.

 

Where in Italy are you from?

 

Are you asking about the panties and shaving my legs?

Yes, I make sure my panties don't match and my legs have a bit of stuble. lol That way know matter how bad you might wanna jump his bones you know you can't! Most of my friends do the same thing.

 

It's not something I would ask immediately after meeting them.

After a few months into the relationship, I would bring it up.

 

Yeah i been asked quite abit, not every single guy but the majority have. They always ask have you dated black guys before? and when i tell them yes and that my preference they smile with a suprised but happy look on there face. Then they usually ask what it is that i like about them ect

 

hey darling - I only gave that answer ONCE to a guy I wasnt really interested in... I would not give that answer to anybody really. It was just a joke.

I dont really know what to answer to a question like that... Its like answering : WHY do you like sun? or snow? you just do, right?

So when BM are asking that question - what do they want to hear, in your opinion?

 

I assume the question usually cones from a guy that really likes you and probably wants to hear "I find many kinds of attractive but I'm really attracted to you"
For me I just want to know that it's not a fad for you. A lot of ww i've met are only in it for the experience not for the man.

 

So for you why BM? What's the attraction sweetheart?

 

I dunno my tastes just changed when i was 15 from white and black guys to just black men period! I love athletic men, they have style and swagger, they are sexy and cool and that drives me crazy. Blacks mens features can be very musculine which i love, and i love a tall guy 6 feet and higher. It's really hard to explain why u like something cause you just do, black guys are the only ones who make me look twice Oh and i always have more in common with black guys.

 

Really? like what?

 

Same here. I often think that they are suprised or not used to WW being interested.
I wish it was not so suprising an dthat BM will realise that they have every right to date WW.

 

The media makes it seem so taboo. Like a ww couldn't possibly want us unless we're athletes or some type of entertainer.

 

yes i agree.
We are always seeing WW with famous BM from sport, cinema, television etc
WW also date African men who are far from being famous.

 

Show me where I can sign up for that lol

 

Music and humor seem to be big ones and so much more

 

They ask, yes, but me mostly in the way of "Am I the first bm you date?" So, it seems to me that they hope, to be the first one... ...The reason, why they ask I don´t know..they don´t want to say the truth..

 

Maybe they like to think that they have been the one to "convert" you?