project on IR in the media, please help

Hi everyone,
I've been looking around your website and you all seem like nice intelligent folk so I'd like your help. I'm doing a project (probably a zine or a short documentary not sure yet) on the way IR relationships are misrepresented in the media. I'd love if you could tell me what you think of the representions of WW/BM relationships and/or what your relationships are/were really like. I'm sick of the whole 'only like each other for sex' myth and would like some real stories and quotes I have premission to use. Please include what name you'd like to be quoted with.
Thanks a lot
FreezerBunny