Physique vs mouthpiece: What gets the ladies?

You're clearly speaking from a mans perspective. Three of my favorite male posters here would have me absolutely hooked if I were single, and I don't even know what they look like. I'm attracted to their personalities.

Look at the couples that meet online and fall in love before they ever even meet in person. Haven't you ever loved someone so much that you see beauty that might not be as outwardly apparent to the rest of the world?

I know people can be shallow, but I don't think the majority of people would sacrifice their own long term happiness because of it.

 

mofos think you dont have to have good convo to pull women...just looks and build. they think all you have to due his flex ur muscles and they will automatically drop draws.

its a dead issue to men....boys however....

 

I guess it's the same as having a fine dumb ass chic that can't hold a decent convo......

 

Or,,, maybe they need to soak in some of this "Southern Hospitality". Lmfao

 

exactly, after the luster is gone dudes will surely examine what spiritual, and mental stimulation level you are bringing to the table. if all you gonna do is bring problems...your ass is back to the heap. if you arent mentally and spiritually stimulating you might be gone. thats how MEN think.

Boys..."man she shit got ass."
Men... "she make sense"

 

Uh ... Head game and a good meal?

All jokes aside, there is some truth to what the OP posted. Operative word being some. But, if you'll notice, he credits his luck with women to confidence. Now, he gets his confidence from his build. Guarantee you if dude was insecure or didn't know the right things to say, he'd get no ass. But, he actually hints at that in his post.

Women notice him because he's in good shape. That's his opening play. But, a guy could use something else to get noticed. That's what it really is: standing out from the crowd then saying and doing the right things from there.

You don't have to buy drinks. You don't have to have money. You never jaw jack with a chick at the club all night hoping something will happen. You don't have to be in shape and you don't have to settle for chicks you don't think are hot. Learn what gets you noticed and how to make it work in your favor. Confidence flows from that. Nothing turns females on like confidence. Real confidence. Not new agey, I think I can B.S.. But, that real deal, know your shit, swagger. Shits like catnip to them.

 

Lol so true, so true. :smt080

You're absolutely right about confidence though. It works every.damn.time.

 

well stated

 

QFT.


And people still won't understand.

 

It's funny, women are always talking that "not settling shit" when they hardly have to when it's men in fact who settle all the time. That's why that Elliott Rodger's kid was so upset with himself and life in general, he couldn't get what he wanted. In this thread, basically everyone is telling guys to "settle" who have an hard time with women.

Mouthpiece and confidence shit people speak of is bullshit to me. The bravest, most courageous, ballsy men I've met in my life were men with mental disabilities where most people would deem them as "slow".

These guys had 0 problems approaching women in public on a non thirsty tip complimenting them and striking an friendly conversation. Each and every time with these women, you could tell by the body language that they didn't want to bothered with them which made me mad.

I observe women a lot and their choices in men because I just think human interactions/behavior is fascinating itself and notice women really aren't any different from men even when it comes straight down to looks, no matter how much false information we are fed about looks not being important to women.

 

His ex wife and girlfriend are polar opposites.

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You can tell he was sick as fuck of his ex wife in this interview.

 

mofos making excuses for not pulling women. at home in bed crying in thier pillow face down and shit. snot running out thier nose.

they will be screaming "why? why? that other dude's body aint better than mine. why?"

 

smh ......oh my goodness.

 

I'm really not understanding why so many can't find a good woman. Are they looking for that "flawless" women?

 

are you telling me that the guys who are ballsy are mentally slow...lol. so explain to me how dudes pull womens numbers in the club, grocery story, at work and other public setting ? are they all mentally slow?

are you saying having the ability to convo and be confident is bullshit? if yes explain.

 

lol. they have been watching the movies too much and jacking off to porn and king magazine.
living in a damn fantasy.
they act lick they are entitled to play...

mofos think they SUPPOSE to bat a 1.000 when approaching a woman.
i guess they think a woman is suppose to drop thier panties upon approach.

 

The man who wrote the OP is (IMO) arrogant and although he may be keeping it real as far as showing up and not making any effort to cuff a woman and take her home to sleep with her, I just find his keeping it real personality extremely unattractive.

He's the guy with only looks to offer. He may have a great personality, but his gleaming arrogance is blinding, at least to me. This guy's arrogance is a big turn off for me. This is what I would call a man who has no serious investment in getting to know anyone for who they are outside of the bedroom.

I appreciate a man who has confidence and can start up and maintain an intelligent conversation with me. If he feels good about himself, it won't matter what he looks like. I'm not looking to go home the first time meeting him to get some random dick - no matter how fine he may be. I'm not looking at every man I meet as a potential spouse/boyfriend/fuck buddy. I'm just there to meet and mingle. Should I find someone I want to get to know better, chances are he's going to have a lot more going on than his looks. I will pick up on charm, charisma, confidence, and personality.

 

Thinking the same thing. This all you need is confidence bs is just that bs. All my life the most lonely dudes who couldn't get girls were not being held back by lack of confidence. It was by women constantly being open about not wanting fat and/or broke dudes. I've yet to see the dude working at target with the nappy head and no car getting anywhere near the attention of dudes who were on point oh wait I mean "confident". These lying mofos are acting as if this shit is an even playing field where looks and possessions don't matter its hilarious.

 

And just like raider its so odd that all the "confident" guys look a certain way in your life or at least from what you share. You women are a trip lol

 

Who's making excuses? Shit I stay coochie downed to my socks just recognizing what this dating thing. Its a matin ritual just like everything else in human history. Women want the best males to procreate with instinctively.