Physique vs mouthpiece: What gets the ladies?

I implore you to end your Cosmopolitan magazine subscription right now.

 

This. It works and it works well.

 

North, be real.

When you're out looking to hookup, what's your best asset??
Just from reading your posts on WWBM I'd guess you put your personality first or at least a damn close second to your appearance.

That's all people are saying.

If you gained 30# would you still get laid???

Of course.

 

you rite
nikkas can only deal with bitches (as your thread shows)

i and black men deal with women.

 

You think if Kevin Hart didn't have paper he would be with the chick he's with right now? I am guessing the House of Payne cat or Faizon Love have hot chicks falling over themselves to be with them just because they are funny.
Men do not mince words and make looks top of their agenda and do not hide it.What i find farcical is when some women pretend as if looks don't matter and would pick a Riddick Bowe looking funny guy over a good looking guy who isn't funny if they had these 2 choices.

 

Yes, yes it does

 

Looks.

I don't approach females and I have the personality of bottom shelf vodka. I'm not really disagreeing with anyone, I just wanted to hear other's pieces and experiences on the subject.

If I gained 30lbs of muscle, I'd be swimming in grade A pussy no doubt. If I gained 30lbs of fat, I'd get laid here and there with women I wasn't really attracted to.

Just the other day my physique trumped some mouthpiece dudes.



While out with my gorgeous Puerto Rican/Italian girlfriend we stopped at McDonald's to grab something to eat. I told her go start the car while I run to the rest room. While walking back to the car I see the car parked next to ours quickly pull off but I pay no attention to it because I didn't find it abnormal. I get in the car and she says "Daddy I got the funniest thing to tell you, these guys just tried to get at me."

I'm like perturbed to why she thinks I give a fuck and say "Your beautiful so I expect that to happen. What they say?

"It was 2 dudes in the car and I think they were watching me and waiting for me the whole time to come back to the car. Before I get in, the one guy says how old are you? I tell him I'm 18 so he's says let me get your number. I told him but my boyfriend is right there in McDonald's. He says so what, he don't got to know. Where you from? I'm from around here. Well I'm from Detroit and I say oh..... So his boys chimes in and says he lives around here tho and that's when you walked out the door.

Daddy soon as they saw you, they rolled up they windows without saying nothing, threw up the peace sign and dipped out the parking lot.



You so sexy and manly Daddy, I love it and leans over for a kiss.

 

While you and I tend to disagree on 99% of everything...I will admit that you seem to have a sense of humor. It's sarcastic (rude) as hell, but some girls (youngins most likely...like chick in your story) dig that. Yes you work out and take care of yourself, but if you put on some chunk, I think your mouth would work a little harder maybe but you'd still get the chicks at the end of the day.

Being fit isn't the be all and end all like some of y'all dudes think.

 

Alright North.

But anyone self-deprecating enough to say they have no personality when their words say otherwise leads me to believe they can charm females when they want to.

Getting a female, looks help no doubt.

Keeping one for more than a couple hours requires something more than looking tight when the shirt comes off.

 

Dude you talk from a position of privilege. You're a cute white girl who is exclusively into bm. One you cut out an abundance of competition by your preference not to mention you.,, never mind keep speaking on this shit like you Raider have ever been a guy trying to get women especially when you yourself just happen to date mostly on shape guys well over six feet. What a startling coincidence lol

 

But would it be from girls he really wanted or settled for because thats what was available

 

Aww you think I'm cute lol

I understand your point about me, as a woman, being in a position of privilege in the dating world. However, I think the dating world can be extremely easy on men if they smartened up a bit (like taking andreboba's advice). We've spoken of this a hundred times..,the fact that the dudes that approach me are tall and in shape isn't my choosing. They approach me. I'm an average looking chick who pulls dudes that are way out of my league. There has to be something more than my looks that's sucking these dudes in and keeping them around for the long haul. Enter my charming personality lol

 

OK please stop it, you know you are being modest. You have a pretty face and from the lingerie pics sweet bum cheeks not to mention those green eyes that would make a tongue speaking christian brother sin( yeah you got the cum fuck me eyes). Average? Please

 

Exactly she's being coy and she knows it.

 

Knock it off we've spoken about this before. More than likely you give vibes to certain guys you don't with others is a smile, a little hair flip whatever that you don't give to average dudes..
Boba's advice is horseshit because even he admits that looks and money matter as a foundation

 

^^^I don't even know what that means, but you're the third person to use those exact words with me lol

Dude, I am not. My point was that personality, in conjunction with ok looks, goes a long way. Give a dude the choice of a model chick with a cardboard personality or a decent looking chick with a kickass personality and he's choosing option 2 ten out of ten times. Looks (and money) alone, for men or women, doesn't get you anyone of substance.

 

You under estimate how shallow people are not to mention our insanely short attention spans.
Like I said its interesting the guys girls speak so highly of on here and in real life all happen to be men they are very physically attracted to.
We're shallow creatures for the most part

 

uuuhhh. kevin hart was married for awhile. he been divorced for about 2 years or more. a couple of kids....so ......

 

hey dude ,

i (said it before) and every man (not nikkas) and women (not bitches, hoes, and buzzards) are saying this for the millionth time....look and money gets the attention but convo hooks em.
if im wrong why are millionaires going to dating services, and trick sites like sugar daddy.com. because they have no game. they have to buy the puddy.
why are millionaires going to the bunny ranch, strip cubs and ect....

 

I get the ladies. Lol. (Joke). If you have a little of both (average dude), you shouldn't have a problem getting women. I personall don't understand this issue.