Both are important for me to fall for a person. Physical attraction gets a women in the door with me. Intellectual keeps you there.
Physical starts the conversation.... I personally think the physical thing is a big draw; might even get you to 1st or 2nd base. But, there has to be some intellect to keep things going.
looks are a delight,but the intellect makes that delight endure. There are many aspects to look, the intellect I think rationalizes and weighs both on which one is more desirable when you meet someone.
Great to hear that, this is why I often stress liking a woman that I can learn new things from and vice versa. Constantly feeding off of each other intellectually.
What draws me-uneducated, quiet, trailer trash, with a tat pointing down at the crack of her butt and a booty as big as Coco. Fuck that intellectual stimulation bullshit, I just want to hit and quit it.
IMO, a relationship can't be built on a strictly physical connection & I don't get sexually involved with a man outside of a relationship. To me starting a relationship with someone based on the physical is a mistake...I speak from personal experience on this from my young & stupid days. It's important to have a connection on both levels, but when you connect intellectually, it gives the relationship substance. There's only so much physically connecting you can do; it gets old & boring...no matter how good the physical connection is in the beginning. I don't want to be with someone who bores me, can't carry on an actual conversation &, as you said, it's good to connect with someone you can learn from & vice versa. I don't care how hot & fine a man is; if he's stupid or lacks common sense, it turns me off.
