Physical connection vs Intellectual connection.

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Kushton Slater, Nov 10, 2010.

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  1. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    I would read you a list of things I like about you on a daily basis :smt056.... You aint lying though, when Im not looking for a relationship the opportunity for me to get into one is everywhere, but when Im looking for one aint shit in sight. Lifes a cruel yet funny joke sometimes.
     
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    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  2. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Thank you Kush, that's very sweet. :smt058

    But as long as you know they're full of it, it really doesn't matter what they say, you just tune it all out after a while. Find a happy place... find a happy place... oh look at that, he's gone and I did find a happy place, it was here all along. :cool: I believe that you can choose to be happy in the worst of circumstances. You can't control what happens to you at times, but you can always control how you react to it. No one should let a miserable person mind fuck them on a daily basis.

    Yes, but the unexpected things are often the best surprises it seems. I don't get surprised very often, it kinda tingles, I've decided I like it. :D
     
    Espy, Nov 11, 2010
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  3. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    Solitude is something I've enjoyed for a long time. I've always been independent & very private. It's just recently that I've been ready for something different. Most of my focus for the longest has been on raising my son, & now that he's grown it's almost like I'm starting over. I don't even know what to do with myself anymore, but I'm going with the flow to see what happens. Like you said things often find you when you aren't looking to be found. I met a good guy a while back & I do love him, but he's obviously not ready for a real relationship (even though he thinks he is). As hard as it was I had to end it. He wants me to give him another chance, but unless he grows up, I can't. I can't put my life on hold (again) to wait for him to figure it out; whether or not he does remains to be seen. I refuse to let it get me down & even though it's tough; I'm sad about the relationship but I'm happy with life itself. I'm open to see what/who life has in store for me.
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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  4. CarlosNevada

    CarlosNevada Active Member

    We agree on a lot, including raging hormones and missing Tarshi. All of the exchanges today and attention have me very "alert" at the moment. I think each of us have a group of admired folks, any one of whom would be subject to some serious passion if the showed up at our door right now.
     
    CarlosNevada, Nov 11, 2010
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  5. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    LOL- I love that.. I've made a similar experience once, but the circumstances weren't the best for us.

    It's correct that the biggest turn on is his intelligence, humor, his manners and his self-confidence, politeness and niveau. But I care, how somebody looks like. It's not that he has to be a handsome man, but a few conditions I have.
    For friends I don't care, too
     
    christine dubois, Nov 11, 2010
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  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    "Alert" huh? I find that extremely interesting. We definitely have some things in common. I do miss Tarshi a lot, but the raging hormones are a little more difficult to handle right now. I don't know why I'm so worked up lately. You're right though; it could be a very dangerous thing for someone to show up at the door right now. ;)
     
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  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I agree that physical attraction isn't necessarily about being handsome; I think it's about chemistry. I think intelligence & chemistry are both important. I find that the stronger the non-physical connection is, the stronger the physical attraction becomes. When you have a true connection with someone, the initial attraction grows into something much more beautiful & powerful. As with the man I mentioned, the physical chemistry was all we had & over time it made him less attractive to me because there was no substance. I need the mental & spiritual connection because the physical connection is not enough to satisfy me.
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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  8. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    (puts on gear) Im ready for some danger....
     
    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Lol!
    You better be prepared because I'm wearing my spurs this time!:smt079
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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  10. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    the physical gets you attention the intellect keeps you there
     
    goodlove, Nov 11, 2010
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  11. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    I guess the Texan is comin out tonight.
     
    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Damn straight! Giddy up stud! :smt112
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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  13. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    With your ol I think Im ready for what Big Daddy is about to give me, but the truth is you have no idea how deep Im bout to go lookin ass :)
     
    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  14. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    LOL!!!!!!!!
     
    Inner Beauty, Nov 11, 2010
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  15. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    LOL
    Your attempt at talking dirty to me is making me laugh, crazy man.
    In other words..."your saying got me laughed a million time harder that it is already...you cracks me up"

    PS I can handle whatever you got Big Daddy; never doubt me. ;)
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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  16. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    What you laughin at? With your ol chicken noodle soup with a soda on the side lookin ass

    Its goods thats eyez beez crackins yousa up my lady.
    Man wait until I flap smack pap that ass, will see if you can handle it.
     
    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  17. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Ahh you said my name....lol

    Don't go there! I have a doozy waiting for you...lol
     
    Inner Beauty, Nov 11, 2010
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  18. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    I like your sig... LMAO at the name thing I didnt even notice that, wht doozy u got for me lol.
     
    Kushton Slater, Nov 11, 2010
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  19. Liquid Swords

    Liquid Swords New Member

    I like it too and I recognise it from Francoise Sagan. I love the book Bonjour Tristesse, my mum bought it for me years ago.
     
    Liquid Swords, Nov 11, 2010
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  20. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    LMAO!!! You makes me laugh so harder forever!

    What ? :smt107
    I knows I can handles it--your ass is so worth for ass kicking from me today!
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 11, 2010
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