Opposites versus similarities

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Be-you-tiful86, May 30, 2013.

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Do you rather feel attracted to opposites or similarities?

  1. Opposites

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  2. Similarities

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    20.0%
  3. A balance of the 2

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    20.0%
  4. Depends on the aspects which differ

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    60.0%
  1. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Some people feel more attracted to opposites,while others are looking for someone to share many interests,believes etc with- and of course there are some who prefer a balance of opposites and similarities.
    Which works best for you, if you can say that per se? Or does it more depend on which things exactly differ?

    For me the ideal case is somewhat of a balance between both.
    Certain things I feel more comfortable having the same view on,while other things can be opposites.
     
    Last edited: May 30, 2013
  2. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I pretty much agree with your assessment there. I personally would prefer a person who shares similar political views, mainly social issues and the like, but when it comes to other things like religious or economic views, I would prefer somebody that is different from my perspectives.

    Having somebody who shares the exact same views wouldn't really help personal growth since you need to be around people who have different views from you.
     
  3. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    A woman who doesn't nags.
     
  4. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Same here.
     
  5. chocolatecream4u

    chocolatecream4u Well-Known Member

    I like a woman with similar likes.Normally when I meet someone opposite of me we are exactly that, and water and oil don't mix.
     
  6. chocolatecream4u

    chocolatecream4u Well-Known Member

    :smt045Indeed!!.Definitely feeling that.
     
  7. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    I like someone who's similar to me. My circle of friends is filled with varying personalities and viewpoints, so for my partner...I'd like us to be on the same page with the big ticket items.
     
  8. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    There should be a designated day of the week for nagging. Therefore you won't have to brace yourself constantly. lol
     
  9. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    We wouldn't nag if you'd just do what you're told. :p
     
    Last edited: May 30, 2013
  10. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

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    Sure! I know you want a man to do exactly what you tell him. :p
     
  11. chocolatecream4u

    chocolatecream4u Well-Known Member

    :freehug:Heeey Baby!!:freehug:
     
  12. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    There are exceptions to every rule.
     
  13. chocolatecream4u

    chocolatecream4u Well-Known Member

    Put all the naggers on one island they will all sound like a bunch birds in the morning time.
     
  14. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

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  15. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Hi lovey! :freehug: :smt058
     
  16. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Basically
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

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  18. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    :smt037 Omygoodness! SP be off the chain!!
     

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