Opinions?

Unbunch your panties whik. You know I don't think that. I was just having fun with you. Btw I think every girl lies about it so you're probably better off saying nothing.

 

My panties aren't bunched, I was just agreeing that it is what people automatically think!

 

Seriously? If you know the number by heart, can you really be considered promiscuous? If it starts becoming an estimate then maybe...

 

Maybe an immature guy but I'll be honest a lot of guys don't like thinking you've been with a lot of guys no more than you want to think about how beautiful his last gf was. It's all about insecurity.

 

I waited a very long time to do it, but I think I'm ready to embrace my inner slut. I don't have a lot of choice, given my circumstances. It's that or be a nun, and I'd really make a lousy nun.

I realized recently...what's going to happen if I "misbehave?" Someone's gonna talk trash about me on the playground? I'm 52, I pay my own bills, it's no one's business who or how many I sleep with, and if other people think it makes me a slut, well, the hell with them. I don't live my life by anyone else's rules in any other area, I sure don't have to do it where it comes to sex. Hence my fling with a guy 20 years younger.

 

Then those guys don't need to think about it. Just like women shouldnt get hung up about how many or how lovely the women he has been with.

 

who cares what others do

 

So much easier said than done

 

Yeah, comes with maturity and confidence in yourself. I figure if a guy is with me, it's because he wants to be. So I don't worry about women he *used* to want to be with. If he still wanted to be with them, he would be.

Likewise, he shouldn't be worrying about guys I used to sleep with - if I wanted to be with them, I wouldnt be with him.

 

Yes you do.

 

I was recently a bit offended because 2 guys I work with considered me a "prude". The 3 of us were drinking and talking and the subject of sex came up and I asked how many partners they thought I had.

They both guessed no more than 7. Really?

When I told them the number, they were floored. I guess I don't look as "slutty" as I am. LOL.

Though I know of some women who are above my number and are a lot younger than me.

I'm all good. :smt023

 

How so? I run my own life, I have my own money, I don't let other people make my decisions for me.

 

If it wasn't good, you wouldnt be doing it

 

He probably means formatively or through interdependence.

 

Ive had exactly 6 partners in my life, and I dated every single one of them for an extended period. Most over a year, but none for less than 6 months.

I have never had a one nighter and I have no interest in them. I guess that makes me promiscuous.

 

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That's the second worse song in the history - the first one is that "Ima like a bird". I want to smash the radio when they come on. Just coincidentally, its two of her songs - completely.

Back on topic. I think you either are promiscuous or prude, there is no middle ground it looks like to me so you cant win
Can I be Promude?

 

Whatever.

I don't see why anyone bothers to ask or answer those questions. If you're into someone, then that should be enough.

 

Exactly. :smt023