Online Dating????

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90% percent of women will tell you anything you want to know and then some without you asking. All you need to do is listen.

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u r right about that. if they dont tell thru questions that u ask or dont ask.....they will tell u thru thier actions.

 

Whether you like it or not, my proposals about "filtering" certain women out makes sense. Of course people would disagree, laugh at me, or neg rep me. You can't just date anyone who happens to be a white woman and waves at you or says "hi" or something like that. No wonder the people that date based on those prerogatives face failures in their relationships.

I'm looking for a woman of a good "quality", not just a woman looks cute or has wealth or status or whatever. Even though this country is obviously not the ideal place for companionship and dating (any kind of relationship) I'm trying to make the best out of a poor circumstance.

 

u need to go back and read my posts about what u stated....in a sense I agreed with u. go back and read. u will see

 

Having high standards and certain qualities that you are looking for in a potential mate is a VERY good idea Mikey. Glad to see you have learned and are living this very important lesson early on in life. Keep working on yourself so that when you do find that special woman you will be her equal, and don't pay any attention to anyone criticizing or trying to make fun of your view on this, you are on the right path.

One thing that I would disagree with you on is pet ownership, in my experience, responsible pet owners show a desirable degree of dedication and care to another living thing that translates well to personal relationships.

 

agreed...

 

hmm

I use plenty of fish- but I tend to call it "Plenty of Ratchets" these days. lol.
OkCupid is ok, I'm starting not to like online dating- the medium is ok but meeting with people in person is so much better in my honest opinion.

 

Easy for you to say. The Bay Area is a big place.

 

Thanks, sounds right. I have been watching a series on Investigation Discovery where they talk about various kinds of cases. They even have a series called "Deadly Women", "Deadly Affairs" and some of the other clips involve women playing a partial role in orchestrating the death of their boyfriend or husband. That's a risk I forgot to mention that comes with any kind of relationship - you could lose your life and end up dead. The link is here and there are full-version segments on Youtube.

http://investigation.discovery.com/

About the pet ownership thing - I'll clarify. I guess it just depends on the pet that's there. A pet, such as a small cat wouldn't be a problem, but a large dog might be different and harder to cope with.

 

...anybody familiar with AshleyMadison? can anybody speak to how that has worked out-- or not worked out?

 

its worked, but i found posting an add on craigslist offering sensual massages to women has worked out best and i get paid.

 

lmao:smt081

 

funny thing is... people in my old city knew me as "The Brown Adonis"

 

when a woman say "turd" or "creep" most of the time is just because she's not interested in the guy however objectively less or more attractive he might be

 

paid how? if Athena was here she would say with some fried chicken and sprite:smt005

 

you're right!

 

Male advice needed

Since I almost never meet black men in my area, I thought I might give online dating another chance.

I saw a profile of an attractive guy and decided to send him a message.
I kept it short, just said hello and wished him a nice week.
He responded saying that my message put a smile on his face.
He complimented my hair, my eyes and my bodyshape but didn't ask any questions or offered anything.

I responded thanking him for the compliments and asking him what part of the city he is from. I said that I would like to know more about him.

NO RESPONSE ANYMORE even though he was online and visited my profile again this morning.

I don't understand men.
Why would you be on a dating site and compliment a woman if you are not interested? I don't get it.
Can one of the guys try to explain please?

 

It could be for multiple reasons.... don't take it so seriously. Just casually speak with folks on there and keep it moving until you meet someone where yall click.

 

I have no personal experience with dating sites really, but I know a few females and a couple of fellas that use them. The people that I know personally that use them are not reckless in any way in my opinion, but most of them have encountered someone they thought they had something good going, and ended up with an STD. In no way am I saying that this is the outcome 'if' you date online, I just find it interesting.

I also find it interesting that online dating was frowned upon before, as if you were some type perv or troll, or unfortunate soul. Now, people see the great value it can have. Some of the same people I mentioned above, ultimately found a STD free partner and long-term relationships.

 

Maybe he's trying to size you up, or he thinks your attractive, but not necessarily compatible, you just never know. Like North said, just keep it moving.