I can't really explain - they are just chicks. When you apply for a job, nearly every employer does that. Shouldn't the same precaution be done for dating?
Well, since you already are making this comparison....every man should bring references to the date then, don't you think? And I should be able to contact the women of his past to ask what he is like as a partner?
Yes. That makes sense. I think dating is set up like a business arrangement in America, not really just something where you meet someone randomly and go date. They even have businesses such as http://www.itsjustlunch.com/ where you talk to a representative, tell him or her about yourself and they arrange you with a woman that they feel is compatible. All of the people on the site are women, so what do you think about it?
You definitely don't come across like you lack confidence. I think you chimed in and sided with that other guy just because you like to debate and fight for the underdog. Online TDK might have trouble pulling girls irl (just my opinion), but offline TDK could probably have his choice of women. Like you said love...you're much different offline. Your underlying qualities are the same, but how you speak/debate is much gentler offline. You're quick to see both sides of things offline and you're truly a sweetheart (sorry if I'm ruining your tough guy image lol). I wouldn't carry on with you if I didn't honestly believe you to be a good guy. So no...I don't think you lack confidence...I actually only addressed you because you chimed in on the bs, you weren't one I had in mind when I commented though.
Anyway, I plan on trying dating like this and seeing how it goes. It would work out very successfully.
To have sex with a woman from POF? If that happened to me I had to jumps so many hoops she would reject me after that last one.
Be real instead of looking for cool points. You want people to take your argument serious with your so called experience then say dumb shit like this. Must be really nice to have this tremendous amount of time to gather all of this experience in the dating field while being super mom and being a nurse. Most nurses I know ain't got time for all that. I live this life, you don't, you living thru other people. You said casual sex comes easy to men (all men) TDK and I disagreed that's all and you take it way to the left field trying to put words in our mouths saying we said no man can get it easy. Your average man is not coming about casual sex easy. End of story.
lol where are you looking for chicks?? Dating is supposed to be fun and impromptu, and uncertain. So the woman turns up for the date with her documents, and papers, and you have a good look through and see if she's worthy of you seeing her? Wow, I'm not even sure what to say on that one
No (I sense a hint of sarcasm), but it's freaking true! Maybe it's because your in Aussie land but if you stayed in America for a lil bit, you would find throngs of black men worshiping you.... Or at least at my job lol
Cool points? What is this, 3rd grade?! Dude, you are laughable at best. No need to be on here crying just because "casual sex" doesn't come easy to you. Take your pity party somewhere else...maybe a nice couch with a professional to assist you with your troubles? I date when I want, I'm super mom 24 fucking 7, and I'm a damn good clinical professional. You do know you sound like the worlds biggest hater right now, right? Got your panties all in a twist over some Internet conversation...comical! Enjoy your Friday...hopefully it improves for you and you're able to pull that stick all the way out of your ass. :smt023
I've met all of my dates online, and I've only done free dating sites. Perhaps I could have more success if I tried a paid one, but oh well. The convenience of online dating is just too great for me to pass up. I've tried POF, OkCupid, DateHookup, and Craigslist (yes, Craigslist) to meet women. The funny thing is, I actually had decent success on Craigslist. It's amazing what can happen when you post an ad and someone legitimate responds to it. I'm still friends (at least on Facebook) with the women I met from there. I've found that POF generally sucks for me. When I've contacted women to whom I'm physically attracted, AND who also have a decent amount in common, especially on an intellectual level, I've had less success. With the exception of one, every lady who sent me a message first I was just not into. OkCupid I like because it goes more in depth in terms of compatibility. I think it's the best free dating site out there. I can go in and see based on the way ladies answer questions if it's even worth my time sending a message. For instance if they answer the questions "is long hair inappropriate on a guy" and "would you date a guy outside of your race (I really only contact white women)" with 'yes' and 'no' respectively, it's on to the next one. At the same time it seems to be much tougher to break the ice with ladies on Okcupid than on the other sites I've tried. They seem to be much pickier in terms of communication. DateHookup is pretty much the bottom of the barrel I think. I've really only talked to and dated one quality person from there. The only real possible benefit is that women on average seem to be more open-minded to dating a younger guy than on other sites, but even at that, finding compatible ones is tough.
