Online Dating????

Yeah, she said it. Double duh

 

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hit the bricks

 

Already doneded it!

 

lol

 

Them bricks yellow and lead to munchkin land?

 

HA!:smt033

 

Lolipop Guild in the house bitch. Recognize my gangsta

 

ROFLMAO

Again, you people need jebus. Lol

 

Huntress,I believe the words Simper Fidelis does not mean anything to that man especially in meeting you. He is one of the 'few and the cowardly'.

 

Are you sure that's really okay to do? I'm hesitant to pursue that because it's harmful if your family structure has to take a hit over who you're in a relationship with. Really, what do you think is of more importance Jaisee, your partner or the feelings of your family members?

 

I agree with you Tamstrong, with me my partner is/becomes my family. My family have always been supportive for the majority of my partner choices however.

You don't settle down with your family, you settle down with your partner.

 

I agree completely about choosing your partner over your family.
I'm sorry but aren't we grown ups now? Yes, our family's are important, but not to the extent of them ruling our life choices and making us miserable because its something THEY aren't happy with.
If my family weren't happy with my choice of a man, I would just tell them to go to hell! Well, I wouldn't even go that far, I would just ignore them and carry on regardless.
My parents aren't around anymore, and yes, it would upset me if they were and they didn't like my man, but I would never ever stop seeing someone just to make them feel more secure in their control over me! My parents weren't like that anyway, they would let me know their concerns, but wouldn't expect me to finish with someone because of them.
My life, my ''mistakes'', my choices, if that were to be the outcome.

I have two older sisters who are a little sarcastic, if thats the right word, about my relationship. Its hard to explain, because of the dynamic of my relationship with my sisters, but its not exactly them being rascist, I think they just like to take the piss out of anything I do, so the fact that I am with a black man is a great excuse for them to think of new material.
I actually think they're just jealous because I'm having fun and they don't like that I'm not still that miserable drunk who they at least could lord it over. ''poor sue needs telling how to live...she can't possibly manage herself!'', and that is how I used to be to be honest, but now I've changed my life completely, I've totally straightened up my act, and thats left them a bit panicked.
Bless 'em lol.
But anyway I'm going off track haha, I'm just trying to say that it would be so much better if everyone was happy and cute and supportive, but thats not real life for a lot of us, and we have to go our own way and do what makes US happy, not family, who can sometimes be more bothered about what other people think, what the neighbors will say, how it effects THEM blah blah blah (which is of course, all a load of bloody stupid rubbish).

I love my family but If they don't like it, they can lump it. Its my life, and I'm living it for me, no one else!

 

You're born into family, you choose your partner. Your family should support you and your happiness above all.

 

absolutely.

I mean, they shouldn't just do it blindly. If there are obvious concerns about your partner, they should voice them, but not just be against them for stupid ignorant reasons.

 

My mother is a very astute judge of character. Better than I am. (Unfortunately). It benefits me to listen to her when it comes to partner choices.

 

well thats a different situation of course, and its your decision to trust her opinion. Its just some family members think they can just barrel in and make decisions about peoples lives for no other reason than control and ignorance.

 

You realize how much I hate to admit that, right? Lol. There's always that "Didn't I tell you?" Or, "I told you so." Grrrrrr!!! Just once, I'd like to get it right by myself! You'd think at my age.....

 

I don't care what anyone thinks, especially family. I supported them and didn't protest when they made the decision to marry their significant others. It was their decision. But, if they didn't like the woman I love, then, I am out of there and they won't see me and the woman I love ever again. And they know this.