Online Dating????

Lmao. You're a trip fam.

It's easier?? From the posts I'm reading its a fucking nightmare.

 

Well....it has....I don’t give a shit anymore.lol....
Once my grandfather passed....meeting someone and having kids became less important....and since I live in a place where the options are pretty bad for me....I just take it all as a learning experience. I have given up on finding something compatible but it doesn’t mean I don’t have fun people to be around and enjoy company.

But again….I could be wrong…and someone special could come in my life….if so I have no problem eating crow and posting pics of us together until I make you all sick:smt110

 

And people bitch about it ALOT.
Everyone treats that shit like online shopping and not meeting new people.
Women get pissed when the store seems to be all out of 6'2 muscular doctors and they find one close to that he either goes for sex "too fast" or doesn't give them enough attention.
Men get pissed that there aren't enough actress/models and when they do find a girl willing to give their goofy ass a chance she either "holds out" too long or "holds out" too long... all men care about is sex lol.
Or both types are too quick to jump into something serious so then people adopt the "online dating" sucks attitude. If more people viewed it as casual with no expectations they'd be far less disappointed and/or jaded.

 

Will, I understand what you are getting at, I just hope you are simply using a poor choice of words. The source of a man's strength is his faith. 100

 

Exactly!!! I've known women who are routinely treated poorly in relationships and they still never turn into raging bitches. Our experiences, good and bad, exemplify parts of our personality, but they don't change who we are.

That's the million dollar question right there! Go about your life doing what you enjoy and you're bound to meet some people with similar interests!

 

I am still a nice guy…..I just don’t really give a shit…and if company I am with gets belligerent, loud, etc…I don’t argue or raise my voice…I’m out. Also gave up on the meeting the “one” phase of life so I just play the field….in the past I was on search for wife material….now its just cool if we movie buddies, or cuddle buddies…..fuck buddy ok too….but more drama

 

That's what's up

 

motherfucka I am so guilty of this shit lol. I'm sure one of my haters can dig up one of my old posts where I talk my shit about being single forever and only needing women for some ass but I meet one little Italian/Jewish chick and my perspective did a complete 180. My perspective also evolved as well because I just took it day by day, which is easier said then done, and made it so much easier to just enjoy little moments for what they were with no expectations of future ones.

 

PREACH THAT SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Word? Interesting lol

 

:smt042 made me choke on my water with that tidbit of straight truth!

Btw, your last sentence is 100% on point love.

 

I suppose I could pay eharmony's fees. I never took it seriously. If I look at as less of a bill that will be there for the rest of my life like the water bill and may be as a bill that is there until I find someone, maybe it will hurt less.I'll take it in a few months.

 

Women aren't wired for long term sex without commitment so be aware of what you're getting yourself into. Just because you're cool with something doesn't mean they are.

 

I am not a faith based person....more factual and science based.....so based on evidence, demographics, social norms of this region, lack of education, lack of progressive thoughts, add in all my own perennial idiosyncrasies and ……no, shit aint likely to happen…

Now if I had MORE positive experience dating here…than I could change my mind because facts/experience change…..I respect those of you who have faith but for me….faith is irrational

One of the reasons I want to move to Oregon is because I have scientific/evidence based faith that I will have a chance to meet someone….then I can eat crow for you all

 

Now that I recall. The one girl on OKcupid that was really nice was from Oregon. I thought it was weird that she thanked me for sending a message to her. Maybe it is just how some of the Oregon women are and that I am totally a weirdo for thinking that is weird.

 

Done ol dating on and off for over a decade. Have a profile on a few sites, including harmony and match but has not paid, or been on for many many many years.
Most dates were decent, just no chemistry once meeting in person. Some whack jobs, but mostly just meh.

I think that finding someone on ol dating is similar to going into a bar, not better stats.

 

Look at it as a cover charge for some entertainment. What's twenty bucks for a month or two? You could really enjoy it.

 

Well if moving to Oregon is truly part of your plan, you must have faith in yourself that you will get there. See how that works??

 

YOU NEED TO READ SEX AT DAWN!!! I agree with you....but thats only because society (mostly people with phallus’) treat women with such abuse that it gives a stigma if a woman wants to think of sex like a man…

But at the end of the day your right….which is why I avoid fucking around…I know…none of you fuckers will believe me but that’s ok.lol

 

correct.."online" is weird to me, or at least nothing to take seriously, but if you don't have the possiblity to make daily contacts, out of whatever reason, online seems to be the only option