"One drop rule"

Yeah and dudes wifing-up strippers and the hoodrats

 

But men arent complaining about the shortage of good bw feeling entitled to their hard work and personal development. Totally different

 

Yup! It found the co-host's rebuttal to be right on point, and I commend her. Her statement coming from a man would've likely been criticized.

Yup, and I think a big part of that is them getting wiser with years, and realizing that while eye candy is good... That person needs to possess the inner qualities first and foremost. Many guys do the same to a certain extent.

 

Are you sure?

Dudes don't whine as much but they do...ie bfe.

 

When you start pressing women define a good man then they look Like a dear in Head lights.

The I can find a good man has played out with people....bw too

 

I had a conversation some time ago with a guy who started his own church and advocates polygamy. One of the questions I asked him was....if he was having such a difficult time finding one "good woman" and creating a good solid relationship with one, why would he think it would be possible to find several "good women" and create good solid relationships with them.

I've noticed quite a number of men talking about the difficulties of finding a good woman. Whether there's an issue with expectations (entitlement), not being a team player, or a number of other complaints.

 

Wow! I bet you stumped him with that question.

 

Why do you think that is?

I really think it has to do with all the mixed messages we started giving our young boys. I saw it when I was first having children many years ago. We were supposed to think boys and girls were the same and not put gender specifics upon them. Boys were not to show aggression or do any aggressive play. If they did, they were quickly labeled as having ADHD, ADD, etc. They were told they needed to express their emotions, but only the ones that society deemed fit. And on and on it went. I found it all to be really crazy and completely unnatural. I have both boys and girls and there are clear differences, as there should be.

Sure enough we now have a bunch of guys who don't have any idea what it means to be a man, and who have been taught their natural instincts are wrong. And we have a bunch of females complaining that there are no good men anymore......and we are starting to hear that there is also not any good women anymore.

And now there is even more of a push to make everything gender neutral because we need to be more tolerant and accepting. I think it's great to be accepting, but does that mean we have to deny people's natural instincts and actions in order to do so?

 

Lol...

 

Yes I did.

And truly, I have no problem with people doing whatever they choose to do as long as it's agreed upon by all parties involved and doesn't impact others negatively. I was just trying to get an idea of where he was coming from. He was a very bright man. He really just wasn't used to people questioning him in a calm/intellectual manner.

 

So on point wish I could rep you

 

Well I think the thinking is no one person can fulfill all the needs of another so getting multiple people makes more sense.
I would enjoy that kind of thing if it were possible

 

Lol
You say that now. Its a pain with one

 

Well actually the thinking was that one man could fulfill the needs of several women.

 

Which part

 

I know I can (what can I say. Lol). The question us....do I want the headache.

 

In your dreams.

 

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You said:

And I asked:
Why do you think that is?

 

I think it's possible if the other women support each other too